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<blockquote data-quote="The Encourager" data-source="post: 31133218" data-attributes="member: 9964"><p>Seven Ways to Sabotage Your Prayer Life</p><p>[URL unfurl="true"]https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life?utm_campaign=Daily%20Email&utm_source=hs_email&utm_medium=email&utm_content=81599494&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-8JkeRaiVHOPURTnJRFjYspXEWWzM6UEmvJiiuHwCvUW56CP6mgb1LZvXn_if4N9YlP-4HFBPPw_ud0boVNOjGRomWX4g&_hsmi=81599494[/URL]</p><p><span style="font-size: 26px"><strong>Seven Ways to Sabotage Your Prayer Life </strong></span></p><p><img src="https://dg.imgix.net/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life-wewkiih5-en/landscape/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life-wewkiih5-6b18de428d6961833d490d2cb159e09e.jpg?ts=1575899435&ixlib=rails-4.0.0&auto=format%2Ccompress&fit=min&w=700&h=394&dpr=2&ch=Width%2CDPR" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>How to Sabotage Your Prayer Life</strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>1. Live in Unrepentant Sin</strong></span></p><p>The quickest way to sabotage your prayers is to live in unrepentant sin. God has informed his people of this at many times and in many ways, confronting our presumption that he must hear us no matter how we live. Consider a few examples:</p><p></p><p></p><p>A drunken, undisciplined life makes for belligerent prayers — prayers God does not answer. “The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded <em>for the sake of your prayers</em>” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/1%20Pet%204.7" target="_blank">1 Peter 4:7</a>).</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>2. Ignore God’s Words</strong></span></p><p>Note well: “If one turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Prov%2028.9" target="_blank">Proverbs 28:9</a>).</p><p></p><p>Dusty Bibles stir God’s allergies to our prayers. To understand why, ponder the privilege of prayer. As with a frightened child on a stormy night, God graciously leaves the door open for his people to come to him at any time for help, comfort, and joy. Glorying in this — that his problem with us is never that we come to him too much but too little — far be it from us to make prayer something that God must always hear from us while we can choose whether or not to hear from him. If one ought to be heard, it is God’s voice. If one ought to only listen, it is us.</p><p></p><p>Conversely, when we steep our souls in his word and ask according to his will, our confidence will increase “that if we ask anything according to his will <em>he hears us</em>. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/1%20John%205.14%E2%80%9315" target="_blank">1 John 5:14–15</a>).</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>3. Pray for Your Own Praise</strong></span></p><p></p><p></p><p>Make impressive prayers within the earshot of others, but let all be silent when only God is left to hear? In effect, you are praying for the sake of your glory, for <em>your name</em> to be hallowed among the hearers, for your kingdom to come on earth as it is in your mind. Praying for the sake of your reputation — praying to be admired, respected, and seen — strips prayer of its power.</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>4. Harbor Doubts About God’s Goodness</strong></span></p><p>Prayers springing from our lips, while our hearts only mumble, ask not to be heard. When our hearts roll their eyes as we half-heartedly ask for what we don’t expect to receive, we dishonor God and anchor our prayers to earth.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Prayers of faith that draw near to God know not only that he exists but that he is good — that he rewards those who seek him (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Heb%2011.6" target="_blank">Hebrews 11:6</a>).</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>5. Pray Like an Adulteress</strong></span></p><p>Sometimes God does not answer us because we ask for what we shouldn’t: “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. You adulterous people!” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/James%204.3%E2%80%934" target="_blank">James 4:3–4</a>). What business does an adulterer have to ask her husband for a gift she means to pass along to another lover?</p><p></p><p>“If we are living lives in which God does not have our highest allegiance,” writes Tim Keller, “then we will use prayer instrumentally, selfishly, simply to try to get the things that may be already ruining our lives” (<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Prayer-Experiencing-Awe-Intimacy-God/dp/0143108581?tag=desigod06-20" target="_blank"><em>Prayer</em></a>, 138). If he loves us, he will not fund adulterous romances.</p><p></p><p>All prayer concerns the Father’s glory in Christ: “Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/John%2014.13%E2%80%9314" target="_blank">John 14:13–14</a>). Prayer orbits around this Bridegroom and not our own fallen lusts and desires.</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>6. Belittle God’s Daughter</strong></span></p><p></p><p>Why would a man, much less God, listen to another man who bullies the first man’s daughter? If he expects anything it’s retribution, not blessing. For a man to use his strength against a daughter of the King, to regard her as less than a co-heir, and deal harshly with her, harms his prayers just as he does his wife. If we mistreat those God has given to our protection — especially a wife — we hinder our prayers.</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>7. Come Casually</strong></span></p><p></p><p>We pray to <em>our Father</em> but our Father is also <em>in heaven</em> and has a kingdom and is its King, our King. Not thinking while in prayer, uttering many words as casually as you would a text message to a close friend, minimizes the majesty of the one whom we address.</p><p></p><p></p><p>If anyone had the right to come casually in prayer, it was the eternal Son of God. He did use the term of endearment <em>Abba</em>, but he was no less reverent for it. “In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and <em>he was heard because of his reverence</em>” (<a href="https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Heb%205.7" target="_blank">Hebrews 5:7</a>).</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 22px"><strong>God’s Breath Returning</strong></span></p><p>If prayer is, as George Herbert so elegantly stated, “God’s breath in man returning to his birth,” we will want to ensure that breath is not befouled by the stench of unrepentance or worldliness. We go to him in prayer, broken and contrite over our sin, but not while we are content with careless hearts and reckless lives. As John Piper <a href="https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/that-your-prayers-may-not-be-hindered" target="_blank">paints with vivid imagery</a>:</p><p></p><p></p><p>So, we pray, and keep on praying, not losing heart and not losing a careful watch over our lives. Prayers soar from our lips when we live in repentance, devouring God’s word, seeking his glory, loving those for whom we are most responsible, and beyond. We go to our heavenly Father consistently, expectantly, reverently, and press on towards the place where prayer becomes a most precious pastime.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="The Encourager, post: 31133218, member: 9964"] Seven Ways to Sabotage Your Prayer Life [URL unfurl="true"]https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life?utm_campaign=Daily%20Email&utm_source=hs_email&utm_medium=email&utm_content=81599494&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-8JkeRaiVHOPURTnJRFjYspXEWWzM6UEmvJiiuHwCvUW56CP6mgb1LZvXn_if4N9YlP-4HFBPPw_ud0boVNOjGRomWX4g&_hsmi=81599494[/URL] [SIZE=7][B]Seven Ways to Sabotage Your Prayer Life [/B][/SIZE] [IMG]https://dg.imgix.net/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life-wewkiih5-en/landscape/seven-ways-to-sabotage-your-prayer-life-wewkiih5-6b18de428d6961833d490d2cb159e09e.jpg?ts=1575899435&ixlib=rails-4.0.0&auto=format%2Ccompress&fit=min&w=700&h=394&dpr=2&ch=Width%2CDPR[/IMG] [SIZE=6][B]How to Sabotage Your Prayer Life 1. Live in Unrepentant Sin[/B][/SIZE] The quickest way to sabotage your prayers is to live in unrepentant sin. God has informed his people of this at many times and in many ways, confronting our presumption that he must hear us no matter how we live. Consider a few examples: A drunken, undisciplined life makes for belligerent prayers — prayers God does not answer. “The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded [I]for the sake of your prayers[/I]” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/1%20Pet%204.7']1 Peter 4:7[/URL]). [SIZE=6][B]2. Ignore God’s Words[/B][/SIZE] Note well: “If one turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Prov%2028.9']Proverbs 28:9[/URL]). Dusty Bibles stir God’s allergies to our prayers. To understand why, ponder the privilege of prayer. As with a frightened child on a stormy night, God graciously leaves the door open for his people to come to him at any time for help, comfort, and joy. Glorying in this — that his problem with us is never that we come to him too much but too little — far be it from us to make prayer something that God must always hear from us while we can choose whether or not to hear from him. If one ought to be heard, it is God’s voice. If one ought to only listen, it is us. Conversely, when we steep our souls in his word and ask according to his will, our confidence will increase “that if we ask anything according to his will [I]he hears us[/I]. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/1%20John%205.14%E2%80%9315']1 John 5:14–15[/URL]). [SIZE=6][B]3. Pray for Your Own Praise[/B][/SIZE] Make impressive prayers within the earshot of others, but let all be silent when only God is left to hear? In effect, you are praying for the sake of your glory, for [I]your name[/I] to be hallowed among the hearers, for your kingdom to come on earth as it is in your mind. Praying for the sake of your reputation — praying to be admired, respected, and seen — strips prayer of its power. [SIZE=6][B]4. Harbor Doubts About God’s Goodness[/B][/SIZE] Prayers springing from our lips, while our hearts only mumble, ask not to be heard. When our hearts roll their eyes as we half-heartedly ask for what we don’t expect to receive, we dishonor God and anchor our prayers to earth. Prayers of faith that draw near to God know not only that he exists but that he is good — that he rewards those who seek him ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Heb%2011.6']Hebrews 11:6[/URL]). [SIZE=6][B]5. Pray Like an Adulteress[/B][/SIZE] Sometimes God does not answer us because we ask for what we shouldn’t: “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. You adulterous people!” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/James%204.3%E2%80%934']James 4:3–4[/URL]). What business does an adulterer have to ask her husband for a gift she means to pass along to another lover? “If we are living lives in which God does not have our highest allegiance,” writes Tim Keller, “then we will use prayer instrumentally, selfishly, simply to try to get the things that may be already ruining our lives” ([URL='https://www.amazon.com/Prayer-Experiencing-Awe-Intimacy-God/dp/0143108581?tag=desigod06-20'][I]Prayer[/I][/URL], 138). If he loves us, he will not fund adulterous romances. All prayer concerns the Father’s glory in Christ: “Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/John%2014.13%E2%80%9314']John 14:13–14[/URL]). Prayer orbits around this Bridegroom and not our own fallen lusts and desires. [SIZE=6][B]6. Belittle God’s Daughter[/B][/SIZE] Why would a man, much less God, listen to another man who bullies the first man’s daughter? If he expects anything it’s retribution, not blessing. For a man to use his strength against a daughter of the King, to regard her as less than a co-heir, and deal harshly with her, harms his prayers just as he does his wife. If we mistreat those God has given to our protection — especially a wife — we hinder our prayers. [SIZE=6][B]7. Come Casually[/B][/SIZE] We pray to [I]our Father[/I] but our Father is also [I]in heaven[/I] and has a kingdom and is its King, our King. Not thinking while in prayer, uttering many words as casually as you would a text message to a close friend, minimizes the majesty of the one whom we address. If anyone had the right to come casually in prayer, it was the eternal Son of God. He did use the term of endearment [I]Abba[/I], but he was no less reverent for it. “In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and [I]he was heard because of his reverence[/I]” ([URL='https://biblia.com/bible/esv/Heb%205.7']Hebrews 5:7[/URL]). [SIZE=6][B]God’s Breath Returning[/B][/SIZE] If prayer is, as George Herbert so elegantly stated, “God’s breath in man returning to his birth,” we will want to ensure that breath is not befouled by the stench of unrepentance or worldliness. We go to him in prayer, broken and contrite over our sin, but not while we are content with careless hearts and reckless lives. As John Piper [URL='https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/that-your-prayers-may-not-be-hindered']paints with vivid imagery[/URL]: So, we pray, and keep on praying, not losing heart and not losing a careful watch over our lives. Prayers soar from our lips when we live in repentance, devouring God’s word, seeking his glory, loving those for whom we are most responsible, and beyond. We go to our heavenly Father consistently, expectantly, reverently, and press on towards the place where prayer becomes a most precious pastime. [/QUOTE]
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