Self control

We understand your heart’s cry for self-control, and we join you in lifting this need before the Lord, for it is only through Christ that we find strength to overcome the flesh. The struggle for self-control is one that every believer faces, as the apostle Paul reminds us in Romans 7:15, *"For I don’t know what I am doing. For I don’t practice what I desire to do; but what I hate, that I do."* Yet, we are not left powerless, for the Holy Spirit equips us with the fruit of self-control when we surrender to Him.

The Scriptures are clear that self-control is not achieved by sheer willpower but by reliance on God’s power. Galatians 5:22-23 tells us, *"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."* And in 2 Timothy 1:7, we are reminded, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* If we are struggling in this area, it is often because we are relying on our own strength rather than yielding to the Spirit’s work within us.

We must also examine our hearts—are there areas where we are entertaining temptation rather than fleeing from it? 1 Corinthians 10:13 assures us, *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure."* If we find ourselves repeatedly falling into sin, we must ask: Are we truly seeking that "way of escape," or are we lingering near the snares of the enemy?

If the struggle involves impurity—whether in thought, word, or deed—we must be radical in our pursuit of holiness. Jesus said in Matthew 5:29-30, *"If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna. If your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off, and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna."* While this is a figurative call to drastic action, it underscores the seriousness with which we must treat sin. Are there relationships, habits, or media influences that fuel the lack of self-control? If so, they must be cut off without hesitation.

Let us also remember that prayer is our weapon in this battle. We are to *"watch and pray, that you don’t enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak"* (Matthew 26:41). If we neglect prayer, we leave ourselves vulnerable to the enemy’s attacks.

Now, we come before the throne of grace on your behalf:

*Heavenly Father, we lift up this beloved one to You, knowing that apart from Christ, we can do nothing. Lord, the battle for self-control is real, and the flesh is weak, but Your Spirit is strong. We ask that You fill this one with Your Holy Spirit, granting them the power to resist temptation and walk in obedience. Break every chain of bondage—whether it be lust, gluttony, anger, laziness, or any other stronghold that seeks to dominate their life. Give them a heart that hungers for righteousness and a mind renewed by Your Word.

Father, expose any areas where compromise has been allowed. If there are relationships, habits, or influences that fuel this struggle, give them the courage to sever those ties completely. Let them not be deceived by the enemy’s lies that say, "You can’t change" or "This is just who you are." By Your grace, they *can* overcome, for Your power is made perfect in weakness.

We rebuke every spirit of addiction, impurity, and self-indulgence in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against this child of God shall prosper. Lord, let them experience the freedom that comes from walking in the Spirit, where there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

Strengthen them, Lord, when they feel weak. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Let them meditate on Your Word day and night, that they may not sin against You. And when they stumble, quicken their spirit to repent and rise again, knowing that Your mercies are new every morning.

We declare victory over this struggle, not by might nor by power, but by Your Spirit, says the Lord. May they walk in the liberty for which Christ has set them free. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.*

Beloved, stand firm in this fight. The enemy wants you to believe that you are defined by your struggles, but in Christ, you are *more than a conqueror* (Romans 8:37). Cling to the promise of Philippians 4:13: *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."* This includes walking in self-control. If you have not already, confess any known sin to the Lord, repent, and ask Him to cleanse you. Then, by faith, *walk in the opposite spirit*—replace the old habits with godly ones. Fill your mind with Scripture, worship, and fellowship with believers who will encourage you in the faith.

If this struggle is tied to a specific sin, we urge you to seek accountability with a mature believer who can pray with you and help you stay on the right path. James 5:16 says, *"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."*

Lastly, we must ask: Is your request rooted in a desire to honor God, or is it merely about personal discipline? Self-control for the sake of self-improvement will fail, but self-control for the glory of God will be sustained by His grace. Let your motive be to live a life pleasing to Him, for *"those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts"* (Galatians 5:24).

You are not alone in this. We are standing with you, and more importantly, *God is for you*. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. The victory is already won in Christ!
 
We're right here with you, beloved, in this journey towards self-control. It's a battle we all face, and we're not ashamed to admit that we need God's strength to win it. Let's turn to Him together, shall we?

First, let's acknowledge that self-control is not about mustering up our own willpower, but about yielding to the Holy Spirit's work within us. As Galatians 5:22-23 reminds us, self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, not a result of our own efforts. So, let's surrender our will to Him, trusting that He will equip us with the power to resist temptation and walk in obedience.

Next, let's examine our hearts. Are there areas where we've been entertaining temptation instead of fleeing from it? Let's be honest with ourselves and with God. If we find ourselves repeatedly falling into sin, it's a sign that we might not be seeking that "way of escape" (1 Corinthians 10:13) as diligently as we should. Let's ask God to help us identify any compromises we've been making and to give us the courage to turn away from them.

If the struggle involves impurity, let's be radical in our pursuit of holiness. Jesus' words in Matthew 5:29-30 are stark, but they underscore the seriousness with which we should treat sin. Are there relationships, habits, or media influences that fuel this lack of self-control? If so, let's cut them off without hesitation.

And remember, prayer is our weapon in this battle. We must watch and pray, as Jesus instructed His disciples in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew 26:41). If we neglect prayer, we leave ourselves vulnerable to the enemy's attacks.

Now, let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our beloved friend. Lord, we know that apart from Christ, we can do nothing. The battle for self-control is real, and the flesh is weak, but Your Spirit is strong. We ask that You fill this one with Your Holy Spirit, granting them the power to resist temptation and walk in obedience. Break every chain of bondage - lust, gluttony, anger, laziness, or any other stronghold that seeks to dominate their life. Give them a heart that hungers for righteousness and a mind renewed by Your Word.

Father, expose any areas where compromise has been allowed. Give them the courage to sever those ties completely. Let them not be deceived by the enemy's lies that say, 'You can't change' or 'This is just who you are.' By Your grace, they can overcome, for Your power is made perfect in weakness.

We rebuke every spirit of addiction, impurity, and self-indulgence in the name of Jesus. No weapon formed against this child of God shall prosper. Lord, let them experience the freedom that comes from walking in the Spirit, where there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

Strengthen them, Lord, when they feel weak. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Let them meditate on Your Word day and night, that they may not sin against You. And when they stumble, quicken their spirit to repent and rise again, knowing that Your mercies are new every morning.

We declare victory over this struggle, not by might nor by power, but by Your Spirit, says the Lord. May they walk in the liberty for which Christ has set them free. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen."

Beloved, stand firm in this fight. The enemy wants you to believe that you are defined by your struggles, but in Christ, you are more than a conqueror (Romans 8:37). Cling to the promise of Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." This includes walking in self-control. If you haven't already, confess any known sin to the Lord, repent, and ask Him to cleanse you. Then, by faith, walk in the opposite spirit - replace the old habits with godly ones. Fill your mind with Scripture, worship, and fellowship with believers who will encourage you in the faith.

If this struggle is tied to a specific sin, we urge you to seek accountability with a mature believer who can pray with you and help you stay on the right path (James 5:16).

Lastly, let's ask: Is your request rooted in a desire to honor God, or is it merely about personal discipline? Self-control for the sake of self-improvement will fail, but self-control for the glory of God will be sustained by His grace. Let your motive be to live a life pleasing to Him, for "those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts" (Galatians 5:24).

You are not alone in this. We are standing with you, and more importantly, God is for you. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. The victory is already won in Christ!
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting your need for self-control before the throne of grace these past few days. It is a sacred privilege to stand alongside you in prayer, knowing that the Lord is faithful to strengthen and refine us when we seek Him in humility. We have been praying earnestly that God would fill you with His Spirit, granting you the discipline, wisdom, and perseverance to walk in obedience—especially in those moments when temptation feels overwhelming.

If the Lord has already begun to work in this area of your life, we would love to rejoice with you! Please share a praise report so we can give glory to God together for His faithfulness. If you are still wrestling and longing for breakthrough, we want you to know that we are here to keep contending with you in prayer. Feel free to post this request again as a new prayer need, and we will continue to seek the Lord on your behalf, trusting that He who began this good work in you will carry it to completion.

May you be encouraged by the truth that Christ’s power is made perfect in our weakness, and that He is near to all who call on Him. We are praying that you will experience His presence and strength in fresh ways as you surrender each day to Him.

In Jesus’ name.
 

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