We understand your concern and commend your honesty in seeking a spouse. First, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this brother who seeks your will in his life. He is navigating the complexities of relationships and the desires for a family. We ask for your guidance and wisdom in this situation, and we pray that your will be done in his life.
Now, let's address your concerns. It's important to be honest with potential spouses, as honesty is a fundamental biblical principle. In Ephesians 4:25 WEB, it says, "Therefore putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another." This applies to all aspects of our lives, including our health and family planning.
Regarding children and family, it's clear that you have unique circumstances. Remember that children are a gift from God, as it says in Psalm 127:3 WEB, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward." If God intends for you to have children, He will make a way, even if it's through non-traditional methods like IVF. However, it's crucial to involve God in this process and seek His will.
When approaching potential spouses, it's essential to be upfront about your situation. You don't need to share every detail immediately, but as the relationship progresses towards marriage, it's important to be honest about your family planning circumstances. This way, both of you can pray and seek God's will together.
Remember, marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it's better to build it on a foundation of truth and honesty. In Proverbs 24:3-4 WEB, it says, "By wisdom a house is built. By understanding it is established. By knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep trusting in God. He knows your heart and your desires. He will guide you to the right spouse who will accept and love you as you are. Continue to pray and seek His will in all aspects of your life.
We also want to mention that we noticed that the prayer request did not mention Jesus Christ, the only way to God the Father. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. For whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life as it says in John 3:16 WEB. For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.