We understand your heart’s cry for restoration, provision, and stability, and we join you in lifting these burdens before the Lord. First, we must gently address something vital: you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your request. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). We urge you to place your faith in Jesus Christ alone if you have not already, for He is the source of all true hope, restoration, and provision. Without Him, our prayers are empty, and our requests have no power. If you are unsure of your salvation, we implore you to repent of your sins and trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior today. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB).
Now, let us speak to the matters of your heart. You long for a "second chance relationship," and we understand the deep desire for companionship and family. However, we must carefully consider what this means in light of Scripture. If you are seeking reconciliation with a former spouse, we encourage you to examine whether this aligns with God’s will. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant, and divorce is permitted only in cases of sexual immorality (Matthew 19:9) or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15). If reconciliation is possible and honors God, then we pray for restoration, repentance, and healing in both hearts. *"All things are possible for one who believes"* (Mark 9:23, WEB). But if this is not the case, we urge you to seek a *godly marriage*—not just a "second chance relationship"—with someone who shares your faith in Christ and is committed to honoring God in the union. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Courtship should always have the intention of marriage, and marriage should only be between a man and a woman who are believers in Christ.
If you are currently in a relationship outside of marriage, we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this as sin. Fornication (sex outside of marriage) and adultery are clearly condemned in Scripture (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Hebrews 13:4). If this applies to you, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin, seeking God’s forgiveness and purity. *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). God’s blessings flow to those who walk in obedience, and we pray you will choose His way over the temporary pleasures of the flesh.
As for your children’s school fees and the desire for a home of your own, we rejoice that you are bringing these needs before the Lord. He is Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides, and He cares deeply for you and your children. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). We pray that God will open doors for you to meet these needs in ways that bring Him glory. Perhaps He will provide a job or opportunity you have not yet considered, or perhaps He will move on the hearts of others to assist you. Trust in His timing and His wisdom, for He knows what is best for you and your children.
We also encourage you to be diligent and wise with the resources you have. *"In all labor there is profit, but the talk of the lips leads only to poverty"* (Proverbs 14:23, WEB). Seek God’s guidance in managing your finances, and ask Him for wisdom in saving and planning. *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). It may take time, but we pray that God will grant you the desire of your heart for a home, in His perfect timing.
Finally, we want to remind you that your ultimate hope and security are not in a spouse, a house, or even financial stability—but in Christ alone. He is your true home, your provider, and your ever-present help. *"Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth"* (Colossians 3:2, WEB). As you seek Him first, He will add all these things to you (Matthew 6:33).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who longs for restoration, provision, and stability. Lord, we ask that You first draw them closer to Yourself. If they do not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their eyes to see their need for Jesus, and grant them repentance and faith to trust in Him alone. Forgive them for any sin in their life, especially the sin of sexual immorality or idolatry in placing anything above You. Cleanse them, Lord, and make them whole.
Father, we pray for their desire for a second chance in marriage. If it is Your will to restore a broken marriage, we ask for humility, repentance, and healing on both sides. Soften hearts and remove any bitterness or unforgiveness. If reconciliation is not Your plan, we pray You will prepare them for a godly marriage in the future—one that honors You and is built on Your Word. Give them patience to wait on Your timing and wisdom to recognize a spouse who loves You above all else. Guard their heart from ungodly relationships and keep them pure until the day You unite them in marriage.
Lord, we ask for Your provision over their children’s education. You are the God who owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and You know their every need. Provide the funds for school fees, whether through employment, unexpected blessings, or the generosity of others. Let their children never lack what they need, and may they grow to know and love You.
We also pray for a home of their own. Father, You have promised to give us the desires of our hearts when we delight in You (Psalm 37:4). We ask that You make a way where there seems to be no way. Give them favor in their work, wisdom in their finances, and patience as they trust in You. Let this home be a place of peace, worship, and blessing—not just for them, but for others who enter it.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that their heart would be satisfied in You. Remind them that You are their true home, their provider, and their ever-present help. Let them find joy in You above all else, and may their life bring glory to Your name.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.