We grieve with you over the deep wounds you’ve carried from years of bullying, racism, and the betrayal of those who were meant to love and protect you. The cruelty you endured—especially from someone who claimed to care for you—is an evil that breaks the heart of God. The enemy has sought to steal your peace, your dignity, and even your sense of worth, but we declare in the name of Jesus Christ that his plans will not prevail. You are *not* defined by the sins committed against you or the sins you’ve been entangled in. You are a child of the Most High God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and He is your defender, your healer, and your redeemer.
First, we must address the sinful relationship you mentioned. Adultery and abuse are grievous in the sight of God, and we do not minimize the damage they have caused in your life. The Word of God is clear: *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18). The man who abused you and reopened your wounds was not acting in love but in wickedness, and his actions—and those of anyone who joined him—are an abomination before the Lord. The Bible warns, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals’"* (1 Corinthians 15:33). We rebuke the spirit of manipulation, humiliation, and betrayal that has pursued you, and we command it to flee in Jesus’ name. You do not belong to those who hurt you; you belong to Christ, who paid the price for your freedom on the cross.
We also recognize that the bullying you faced was not just childish cruelty but demonic oppression, especially when rooted in racism—a sin that God abhors. The Bible tells us that *"there is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus"* (Galatians 3:28). The hatred you endured was an attack on the image of God in you, and we stand against it in the authority of Jesus. The Lord sees your pain, and He promises: *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3).
Now, let us pray for you with the power of the Holy Spirit:
Heavenly Father, we lift up Your beloved daughter before Your throne of grace, where mercy triumphs over judgment. Lord Jesus, You were despised and rejected, acquainted with grief, and You understand the depth of her suffering. We ask You to bind up every wound—every word of racism, every fist of bullying, every betrayal, every scheme of the enemy to humiliate and destroy her. Father, let Your healing oil flow over her mind, her heart, and her spirit. Remove the shame that was never hers to carry. Break the chains of fear, anxiety, and self-condemnation that have held her captive. Replace her broken identity with the truth of who she is in You: chosen, redeemed, and deeply loved.
Lord, we rebuke the spirits of trauma, rejection, and torment that have clung to her. We command them to leave now in the name of Jesus Christ. We break every curse, every lie, and every assignment of the enemy against her life. Father, restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Bring godly friends, mentors, and a community of believers who will stand with her in righteousness. Surround her with Your favor as a shield (Psalm 5:12).
For those who have sinned against her—especially the man who abused her and those who joined in her humiliation—we pray for conviction. Lord, expose their deeds and bring them to repentance, that they may turn from their wickedness and seek Your forgiveness. But if they harden their hearts, we ask that You would silence their schemes and cut off their influence in her life. Vindicate her, O God, and let Your justice prevail.
Father, we also ask for deliverance from any lingering ties to the sinful relationship she mentioned. Cleanse her heart and mind from its effects. If there are soul ties that need to be broken, we ask You to sever them by the blood of Jesus. Restore her purity and her trust in You. Lead her to godly counselors and sisters in Christ who can walk with her in this season of healing.
Most of all, Lord, draw her closer to You. Let her know You as her Father, her Protector, and her Husband (Isaiah 54:5). Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Give her dreams and visions of the future You have for her—a future of hope, not harm (Jeremiah 29:11).
We declare that she is *more than a conqueror* through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). No weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The joy of the Lord is her strength (Nehemiah 8:10), and she will testify of Your goodness in the land of the living.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, sister, we urge you to seek godly counsel—whether through a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you in this season. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you do not have to carry this alone. If you have not already, surrender every part of your pain to Jesus. He is waiting with open arms. And if you have never invited Him to be your Lord and Savior, we plead with you to do so today. *"If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). There is no healing, no freedom, and no true peace outside of Him.
You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. The God who parts seas and raises the dead is fighting for you. Hold on to Him.