Saying Goodbye to a Dear Friend’s Husband (and a #GivingTuesday Request)

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### has been my colleague, podcast partner, and dear friend for several years. She began blogging not long after I did, and we engaged online and then decided to collaborate with two podcasts, Sex Chat for Christian Wives and Knowing Her Sexually. Her resources are top-notch, and her friendship has been an absolute treasure to me.

So, when her husband decided to have a major surgery to address some health issues he’d been dealing with, I was glad he was taking that step. ### and “Big Guy,” as she called him, deserved to have many more years together. Unfortunately, he wasn’t recovering after the surgery, so they eventually had to take him back to the hospital. Things had looked grim, but he was improving and expected to be okay in a few weeks or months.

That all changed the day after Thanksgiving. Big Guy experienced multiple cardiac arrests and could not be resuscitated. He died on Friday morning, November 24.

Farewell, Big Guy​


### and ### were married for 32 years and have three grown children and one grandchild. Sadly, I never met him. But I knew a lot about him! ### and I have shared a lot about our lives with each other, from major goals to minor details. And most of what ### wanted for her life involved her husband. Even if he did drive her a little nuts at times, she loved him deeply. And she loved telling the story of how they turned their marriage around from distant and contentious to close and supportive.

### was especially supportive of ###’s marriage ministry. He supported her retiring from teaching to pursue this passion more fully, he cheered her efforts and successes, and he even appeared on three early episodes of Sex Chat for Christian Wives with a few other husbands to discuss the importance of sex, a wife’s beauty, and men’s sexuality. Without ###, The Forgiven Wife, Honeycomb & Spice, Sex Chat for Christian Wives, and Knowing Her Sexually wouldn’t have happened. Their marriage was her inspiration, and he encouraged her ministries.

To say he’ll be missed is an understatement. He leaves a gaping hole in the lives of those who knew and loved him.

Sending Your Condolences​


So many of my readers also know and appreciate ### and her ministry. If you want to share your heartfelt sympathy, feel free to comment below and I’ll gather your messages and share them with her at the proper time.

But as you might imagine, ###’s unexpected death also drastically disrupts the family’s financial situation, right when they have additional expenses. To help ### get through this trying time, the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association has put together a GoFundMe. If you can help out in any way, large or small, just click below to head to that page and donate.


Yes, I Can Help!


If you want to know more about ###, aka Big Guy, here are a couple of relevant posts from ###’s first blog:


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```markdown


### has been my colleague, podcast partner, and dear friend for several years. She began blogging not long after I did, and we engaged online and then decided to collaborate with two podcasts, Sex Chat for Christian Wives and Knowing Her Sexually. Her resources are top-notch, and her friendship has been an absolute treasure to me.

So, when her husband decided to have a major surgery to address some health issues he’d been dealing with, I was glad he was taking that step. ### and “Big Guy,” as she called him, deserved to have many more years together. Unfortunately, he wasn’t recovering after the surgery, so they eventually had to take him back to the hospital. Things had looked grim, but he was improving and expected to be okay in a few weeks or months.

That all changed the day after Thanksgiving. Big Guy experienced multiple cardiac arrests and could not be resuscitated. He died on Friday morning, November 24.

Farewell, Big Guy​


### and ### Taylor were married for 32 years and have three grown children and one grandchild. Sadly, I never met him. But I knew a lot about him! ### and I have shared a lot about our lives with each other, from major goals to minor details. And most of what ### wanted for her life involved her husband. Even if he did drive her a little nuts at times, she loved him deeply. And she loved telling the story of how they turned their marriage around from distant and contentious to close and supportive.

### was especially supportive of ###’s marriage ministry. He supported her retiring from teaching to pursue this passion more fully, he cheered her efforts and successes, and he even appeared on three early episodes of Sex Chat for Christian Wives with a few other husbands to discuss the importance of sex, a wife’s beauty, and men’s sexuality. Without ### Taylor, The Forgiven Wife, Honeycomb & Spice, Sex Chat for Christian Wives, and Knowing Her Sexually wouldn’t have happened. Their marriage was her inspiration, and he encouraged her ministries.

To say he’ll be missed is an understatement. He leaves a gaping hole in the lives of those who knew and loved him.

Sending Your Condolences​


So many of my readers also know and appreciate ### Taylor and her ministry. If you want to share your heartfelt sympathy, feel free to comment below and I’ll gather your messages and share them with her at the proper time.

But as you might imagine, ###’s unexpected death also drastically disrupts the family’s financial situation, right when they have additional expenses. To help ### get through this trying time, the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association has put together a GoFundMe. If you can help out in any way, large or small, just click below to head to that page and donate.


Yes, I Can Help!



If you want to know more about ### Taylor, aka Big Guy, here are a couple of relevant posts from ###’s first blog:


The post Saying Goodbye to a Dear Friend’s Husband (and a #GivingTuesday Request) appeared first on Hot, Holy & Humorous.

Continue reading...
May Jesus rule our life till He call us home to heaven.
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