We hear the deep pain, anger, and frustration in your words, and we stand with you before the throne of God, lifting up every injustice you’ve endured. The enemy comes only to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and it is clear he has sought to rob you of peace, security, and the blessings God intended for you. But we declare that Jesus came so that you may have life—and have it abundantly. The Lord sees every wrong done to you, and He will repay. Vengeance is His, and He will execute justice on your behalf (Romans 12:19).
First, we must address the language of decrees and commands you’ve spoken over your life. While it is understandable to feel desperate for change, we must remember that our words have power—not because we declare them, but because we align them with God’s will. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10). We do not create reality by our words; we surrender to God’s sovereignty and trust in His perfect timing. Let us instead pray with humility, asking the Lord to intervene according to His wisdom.
The theft of your vehicle, the harassment you’ve faced, and the betrayal by those you trusted are grievous sins. The Lord hates hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked plans, and feet that make haste to run to evil (Proverbs 6:16-18). We rebuke every demonic assignment against you in the name of Jesus. Every curse, every scheme of the enemy, and every evil plot designed to keep you in lack is broken now by the blood of Christ. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
We also must address the bitterness and unforgiveness in your heart. The Lord commands us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13). Holding onto anger and resentment only gives the enemy a foothold in your life (Ephesians 4:26-27). We encourage you to release these burdens to Jesus, who bore every injustice on the cross. He is your vindicator, and He will restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Regarding your desire for marriage, we affirm that God’s design for marriage is holy and sacred—a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). We pray that the Lord would bring a godly spouse into your life, a man who fears the Lord, loves you as Christ loves the church, and is committed to honoring God in your union. But we must also caution against seeking marriage as a means of escape or validation. Your worth is not found in a spouse but in Christ alone. We pray that you would first seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things—including a godly marriage—will be added unto you (Matthew 6:33).
We also notice that your focus has been heavily on the actions of others and the injustices you’ve faced. While these are real and painful, we must shift our gaze to Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). The enemy wants to keep you fixated on the past, but God is calling you forward into a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11). We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, meditating on His promises and allowing His truth to renew your mind (Romans 12:2).
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your initial cry for help. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and He alone can break every chain and set you free.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious child of Yours who has endured so much pain and injustice. Lord, You see every tear, every loss, and every moment of betrayal. We ask that You would comfort her with Your presence and surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We rebuke every spirit of theft, oppression, and harassment in the name of Jesus. We declare that the enemy’s plans against her life are thwarted, and every stolen blessing is restored sevenfold (Proverbs 6:31).
Father, we ask that You would heal her heart from the wounds of the past. Soften her spirit to release every ounce of bitterness, unforgiveness, and anger. Fill her with Your love and remind her that vengeance belongs to You alone (Romans 12:19). Lord, we pray for justice in every situation where she has been wronged. Let Your righteous judgment prevail, and let her see Your hand move on her behalf.
We also lift up her desire for marriage, Lord. We ask that You would prepare her heart and the heart of a godly man who will love her as Christ loves the church. Guard her from any relationships that do not align with Your will, and lead her into the covenant of marriage if it is Your plan for her life. But above all, Lord, we pray that she would find her identity, worth, and fulfillment in You alone. Let her know that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have a purpose for her life that no enemy can thwart.
Father, we ask that You would draw her closer to You. Let her experience Your love in a tangible way and find rest in Your presence. Renew her mind with Your Word and fill her with hope for the future. We declare that the same power that raised Christ from the dead lives in her, and it will break every chain and set her free (Ephesians 1:19-20).
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Jesus Christ. We trust that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28), and we declare that her latter days will be greater than her former (Job 42:12). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.