We hear the deep sorrow in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone. The pain of feeling unwanted and avoided is heavy, especially when it comes from those we love most—our family. It’s clear you carry regret over past actions, and we want to encourage you with the truth that God’s mercy is greater than any mistake. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). His forgiveness is complete, and He calls you His beloved child.
You mention praying for their forgiveness and acceptance of the truth about you. It’s important to examine what "the truth about you" means in light of Scripture. If there are areas where your life does not align with God’s Word—whether in relationships, behavior, or identity—we must humbly submit to His truth, not our own. Jesus said, "If you remain in my word, then you are truly my disciples. You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free" (John 8:31-32). True freedom comes from walking in His ways, not our own understanding.
The pain of losing family is real, but we must also consider whether their avoidance stems from unrepentant sin in your life. If so, the first step is to repent before God and seek reconciliation with them in a way that honors Him. "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men" (Romans 12:18). However, if their rejection is unjust or rooted in their own hardness of heart, we can trust God to be your defender. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit" (Psalm 34:18).
We also want to gently address your mention of praying "for their happiness and safety" without invoking the name of Jesus. There is no access to the Father except through Christ (John 14:6), and no prayer is heard outside of His name. "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and receive His gift of eternal life.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who feels rejected and alone. Lord, You are the God who sees and knows every tear. We ask that You would comfort them with Your presence and remind them that they are deeply loved by You. Father, if there is unrepentant sin in their life, reveal it to them and grant them the humility to turn from it. If their family’s rejection is unjust, we ask that You would soften hearts and open doors for reconciliation. But above all, Lord, we pray that they would find their identity in You alone. May they know the truth of Your Word and walk in the freedom that only Christ can give. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, who alone can heal and restore. Amen.
We encourage you to seek fellowship with other believers who can walk alongside you. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you should not have to carry this alone. If you are not currently part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in your faith and experience the love of God through His people.
Lastly, remember that even if family rejects you, God never will. "For the Lord will not forsake his people, for his great name’s sake" (1 Samuel 12:22). Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not forgotten. You are seen. And you are deeply loved.
