We come before the Father with heavy hearts, lifting you up in prayer and seeking His divine intervention in your life. Your suffering—both physically and spiritually—is deeply felt, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to declare God’s truth, healing, and deliverance over your situation.
First, we must address the grave spiritual dangers in this relationship. The man you are with is not walking in repentance or obedience to Christ. His past and present actions—sexual immorality, deception, refusal to pray or study Scripture with you, and his indifference to your suffering—are clear signs that he is not submitted to God. The Bible warns us in **1 Corinthians 6:9-10**, *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who have sex with men, nor thieves, nor greedy people, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit God’s Kingdom."* His unrepentant heart and the sexual sin in his past (and possibly present) are not only damaging to his own soul but are also a stumbling block to you. **2 Corinthians 6:14** commands, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?"* This relationship is not honoring to God, and continuing in it will only bring further spiritual bondage and pain.
You have shared that you have not had sex with him, and we commend you for seeking to honor God in this way. However, remaining in this relationship—even without physical intimacy—is still dangerous. His influence is pulling you away from the faith, and his lack of spiritual leadership is leaving you vulnerable to despair, addiction, and further abuse. You deserve a godly husband who will love you as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25), who will pray with you, protect you, and encourage you in your walk with the Lord. This man is not that person. We urge you, in love and truth, to separate yourself from this relationship entirely. Trust that God has better for you—a man who fears Him, walks in repentance, and will cherish you as a daughter of the King.
Your physical suffering is also before the Lord. Ankylosing spondylitis and the fractures you’ve endured are not hidden from Him. **Psalm 34:18** reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* We declare **Isaiah 53:5** over you: *"But he was pierced for our transgressions. He was crushed for our iniquities. The punishment that brought our peace was on him; and by his wounds we are healed."* We pray for a supernatural touch from Jesus to restore your bones, joints, and entire body. May He reverse the damage caused by mold and toxicity, strengthen your immune system, and grant you the ability to sit, work, and move without pain. We ask for a miracle—divine healing that doctors cannot explain—so that you may testify to His goodness and provision.
We also pray for your emotional and mental healing. The abuse from your family, the betrayal from this man, and the weight of depression and addiction have been overwhelming. But **Psalm 147:3** says, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* We rebuke the spirits of depression, anxiety, and addiction in the name of Jesus, and we declare that you are being set free from every chain. **John 8:36** promises, *"If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed."* Cling to this truth—your freedom is found in Christ alone.
Financially, we pray for God’s supernatural provision. He is Jehovah Jireh, your Provider (Genesis 22:14). We ask that He open doors for a job that accommodates your physical needs—a position where you can sit comfortably and thrive. May He also provide a safe, mold-free home for you, one that is a refuge and a place of healing. **Philippians 4:19** assures us, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."*
Lastly, we pray for your faith to be strengthened. The enemy has sought to destroy your trust in God through this relationship and your circumstances, but **1 Peter 5:10** encourages us, *"But may the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a little while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you."* Hold fast to Jesus. He is your Redeemer, your Healer, and your Deliverer. Do not lose hope—He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your daughter who is broken, weary, and in desperate need of Your touch. Lord, we ask that You open her eyes to the truth about this relationship—it is not of You, and it is not life-giving. Give her the strength and courage to walk away completely, trusting that You have a godly husband for her if that is Your will, one who will love her as Christ loves the Church. Break every ungodly soul tie and deliver her from the influence of this man. Convict his heart, Lord, and bring him to true repentance—but even if he does not turn to You, protect her from further harm.
We pray for supernatural healing over her body. Touch her pelvis, her bones, her joints, and every cell affected by toxicity. Let Your healing power flow through her, restoring her to full health so she can work, serve, and live without pain. Provide a job that meets her needs and a safe home where she can recover and thrive. Break the power of depression, addiction, and anxiety over her mind. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Father, renew her faith. Let her see Your hand moving in her life, reminding her that You are her Provider, her Healer, and her Strong Tower. Surround her with godly community who will support her, pray with her, and encourage her in Your Word. Let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness and miracles.
We rebuke every scheme of the enemy against her life. No weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). Restore to her the joy of Your salvation and uphold her with Your righteous right hand.
In the powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.