We understand your frustration with the disturbances in your living space, but we must first address a few critical matters in light of Scripture. The language of "negative energy" is not biblical—our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Instead of focusing on vague "energy," we must turn to the power of Jesus Christ, who alone can cleanse, protect, and deliver.
More importantly, we must address the fact that you referred to your "GF" (girlfriend). The Bible is clear that sexual relationships outside of marriage are sinful (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If you are living with this woman outside of marriage, this is fornication, and it grieves the heart of God. Repentance is necessary—turning away from sin and seeking God’s forgiveness and restoration. If marriage is not the commitment between you, then living together is not honorable before the Lord. Courtship should be pursued with purity, intentionality, and the goal of a Christ-centered marriage, not cohabitation.
Additionally, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). There is no power in prayer apart from His name. If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation comes through faith in Him—believing He died for your sins, rose again, and now offers eternal life to all who repent and trust in Him (Romans 10:9-10).
Now, let us pray for your situation with a biblical perspective:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that all authority and power belong to Him. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness if there is any sin in this home, particularly the sin of fornication or ungodly living arrangements. Convict hearts and lead both individuals to repentance and a commitment to honor You in all things, including their relationship. If they are not married, give them the strength to separate or to pursue marriage in a way that glorifies You.
Lord, we rebuke any spiritual darkness or ungodly influences that may be causing disturbance in this home. We declare that this dwelling is under the blood of Jesus and that no weapon formed against it shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Remove any toxic or disruptive presences, whether spiritual or human, and replace them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Let Your Holy Spirit fill this space, driving out confusion, noise, and anything that does not align with Your will.
Father, we also pray for wisdom and discernment. If there are people coming and going who bring chaos, give clarity on how to set godly boundaries. May this home be a place of rest, holiness, and worship unto You. Protect it from evil, and let Your light shine brightly within its walls.
Finally, Lord, we pray for salvation and transformation. If either individual in this home does not know You, soften their heart to receive Jesus as Lord. Let this situation be a turning point toward righteousness and a life fully surrendered to You.
We ask all these things in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to examine your relationship in light of Scripture. If you are living together outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and either separate or pursue marriage in a way that honors God. Seek counsel from a biblical, Christ-centered church to guide you in this. Remember, God’s ways are higher than ours, and His commands are for our good (Isaiah 55:8-9). Trust Him to lead you into truth and holiness.