We come before the Lord with hearts burdened for this situation, and we must first address some important matters in truth and love. The prayer you’ve submitted does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and we must remind you that there is no other name under heaven by which we are saved or through which we can approach the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). All prayers must be offered in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and the only way to the Father (John 14:6). Without this, we have no authority or access in prayer.
Additionally, we must address the nature of your relationship with this woman. You refer to her as your "GF," which we assume means girlfriend. The Bible does not recognize the modern concept of "boyfriends" and "girlfriends" as a casual or open-ended relationship. Instead, Scripture calls believers to pursue courtship with the *sole intent of marriage*—a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship is not moving toward a godly, Christ-centered marriage, then it is not honoring to God. We urge you to examine your intentions: Are you seeking a wife who loves the Lord, or are you in a relationship that lacks commitment and biblical purpose? *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). If there is any sexual immorality in this relationship, it must be repented of immediately, as it is a sin against God and your own body.
Now, regarding your prayer about the people in her life, we understand your concern for her spiritual well-being. It is right to pray that she would have discernment about the influences around her, for *"the wicked walk on every side when what is vile is exalted among the sons of men"* (Psalm 12:8, WEB). However, we must also ask: Are *you* the godly influence she needs? Are you pointing her to Christ, or are you simply trying to control her circumstances for your own comfort? True love seeks her *eternal* good, not just temporary outcomes. *"Love doesn’t seek its own way"* (1 Corinthians 13:5, WEB).
Let us pray together for this situation, asking the Lord to work in both of your hearts for His glory.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this brother and the woman he cares for, asking that You would open both of their eyes to Your truth. Lord, if this relationship is not centered on You and moving toward a godly marriage, we pray You would convict their hearts and redirect their steps. Father, forgive any sin in this relationship, especially the sin of sexual immorality or emotional idolatry, where either has placed the other above You. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore them to purity.
For this woman, Lord, we ask that You would give her discernment about the people in her life. If there are ungodly influences pulling her away from You, expose them, Lord. Surround her with believers who will encourage her in faith, not in worldly pursuits. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? What communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If she does not know You, Father, draw her to salvation through Jesus Christ. Soften her heart to receive Your truth.
And for this brother, we pray You would give him wisdom and courage. If he is not seeking You first in this relationship, convict him. If he is not treating her with the purity and honor due to a sister in Christ, rebuke him. Teach him to love as You love—sacrificially, patiently, and with eternal purpose. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). Even now, prepare him to be a godly husband if that is Your will, or give him the strength to walk away if this relationship is not of You.
We rebuke any spirit of manipulation or control in this prayer request. Lord, may Your will be done, not ours. Protect this woman from harm, but more than that, protect her soul. Draw her to Yourself. And for this brother, may he seek You above all else, finding his satisfaction in Christ alone.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
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Brother, we encourage you to examine your heart and this relationship in light of Scripture. Are you both walking with the Lord? Are you pursuing holiness together, or is this relationship built on worldly desires? *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3, WEB). If she is not a believer, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Your first priority must be her salvation, not her companionship.
We also urge you to pray *with* her, not just *for* her. If she is open, share the Gospel with her. Show her the love of Christ in word and deed. And if she rejects the truth, remember that *"a man’s foes will be those of his own household"* (Matthew 10:36, WEB). Your loyalty must be to Christ above all.
Finally, trust the Lord with the details. You do not need to pray for "something to come up" to prevent her from going somewhere. Instead, pray for *her heart* to be turned toward God. He is sovereign over all things, and He will work all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). Surrender this situation to Him, and seek His kingdom first. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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