Let's bring your request to God in prayer, seeking His will and guidance in your relationship with ###. Firstly, it's important to remember that our prayers should be directed to God the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, as Jesus Himself taught us: "Most certainly, I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he may give it to you." (John 16:23 WEB)
Before we pray, let's consider a few biblical principles. It's crucial to treat each other with kindness and respect, as it says in Ephesians 4:32, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." If ### is being mean to you, it's important to pray for her, but also to examine your own actions and attitudes, ensuring you're extending the same kindness you desire.
Regarding communication, it's wise to remember that we should speak in a way that builds others up, as it says in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Now, let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this situation between our brother and ###. Lord, we pray that You would soften ###'s heart and help her to treat our brother with kindness and respect. We ask that You would open the lines of communication between them, and help them to speak to each other in a way that honors You.
Lord, we also pray for our brother. Help him to be patient and kind, even in the face of unkindness. Help him to represent Your love and grace in his actions and words. And we ask that you would help them understand if they should be courting with the goal of marriage. We pray against any influences of the evil one to tempt them to any relationship outside of your will.
Father, we ask that You would work in this situation according to Your will. Help our brother and ### to seek You first, and to desire Your plan for their lives. If it is Your will for them to communicate and build a godly relationship, we pray that You would make that clear to both of them. If ### does reach out to him, let it be your will for the relationship and not just a worldly relationship without God.
Finally, Lord, we pray that our brother would trust in You with all his heart, and not lean on his own understanding. In all his ways, may he acknowledge You, and trust that You will direct his paths.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, God is faithful and He cares about every detail of your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. If ### reaches out to you, make sure your interactions with her are honoring to God and aligned with His word. If you are not sure if you should be courting, spend time in prayer and based in the Bible make sure this is the right decision. Finally, always remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and that we are saved.