We understand that you are seeking improvement in your relationship with the woman you are talking to, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you. Firstly, it's important to remember that God's will is for us to be in relationships that honor and glorify Him. We should also remember that God created man and woman to leave and cleave to each other in marriage, not simply to be in a relationship.
Let's address the issues you raised. It's clear that you desire kindness, communication, and positivity in this relationship. These are all commendable things, but we should also consider what the Bible says about relationships. It is important for relationships to be focused on God and His will. We should not put our focus on the negatives but on the Lord. As it is written in Proverbs 4:25-27 WEB, "Let your eyes look straight ahead. Fix your gaze directly before you. Make the path of your feet level, and all of your ways established. Don't turn to the right hand nor to the left. Remove your foot from evil."
However, we must also address the fact that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. There is power in the name of Jesus. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let us pray together for your situation.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up the woman that this person is talking to. Lord, we pray that You would soften her heart and grant her the spirit of kindness. We ask that You would open the lines of communication between them, allowing them to share their feelings with each other in a way that honors You. Lord, we ask that You would guide their relationship and remove any negativity that is not from You. Help them to fix their eyes on You and to seek Your will for their lives. We pray that their relationship would be one that glorifies You, Lord.
However, we also pray that You would reveal Your Truth to both of them. If this is a relationship that you have not condoned, make it clear to both of them. Help them to understand that they should pursue individual relationships that align with biblical principles. We pray that You would guide them both and that Your desire for their lives would come to pass. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them both and that You would make clear the salvation that is only found in Jesus Christ.
We ask all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and to keep God at the center of all your relationships. God desires the best for you, and He will guide you according to His will.