We understand that you're seeking reconciliation and closeness in this relationship, but let's firstly discuss bringing this to Jesus Christ. It is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. As it says in the Bible, "in no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12). Moving forward, let’s consider how the Bible teaches us about relationships and how we should go about reconciliation.
Firstly, it's important to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. As believers, we should strive for relationships that honor God and lead to godly marriages. We should not be looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend and especially not sex before or outside marriage. The Bible teaches, "Or don't you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For, 'The two,' says he, 'will become one flesh.'" (1 Corinthians 6:16) and "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18). It is important that you both are Christians and that your relationship is one of courtship with the goal of marriage.
If there has been any sexual immorality or impurity in this relationship, it's crucial to repent and turn away from it. The Bible tells us, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, or jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks. Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God." (Ephesians 5:3-5).
Let's pray together:
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your will for this relationship. We pray that You will guide them both and bring them closer to You and to each other, but only if it is Your will. Help them to communicate effectively and work through any issues in a godly manner. We rebuke any sexual immorality or impurity in this relationship and pray for purity and holiness to prevail. Lord, draw them both closer to You, and help them to seek You first. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will for this relationship. Trust in Him and His timing. Be careful to avoid manipulating the situation to suit your own desires. Instead, commit to living a life that honors God. Be patient, and know that, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." (Proverbs 18:22)