Relationship with my brother

natasha2

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Let my brother humble himself finally, let him call me and apologize and change his arrogant story in Jesus name. I cannot stand it anymore. My father died a couple of days ago, and he is constantly making my life more difficult doing some things, and when I say something about it, he starts to humiliate me in different ways. He has a car and me not. He knows most of the info about the funeral on Monday and me not. I think he is doing it on purpose so that he can have control over me. I cannot stand it anymore. Lord, do something that he will finally start to respect me and not treat me like I am his child in Jesus name. Everyone must bow down to his way of thinking and way of doing things. Lord, I want to see finally that I am more than a winner, victor, and overcomer in Jesus name. I really have enough of his manipulation and control in Jesus name. Lord, how can it be that I must suffer so much for decades with my family. I cannot have peace even when my father died to grieve and remember our beautiful moments. Lord, please help me. Let the tables be turned over.

He just called and apologized, but please pray that he will show forever respect and patience. I am suffering that our relationship is not good for 20 years. My friends say that he is probably immature.
 
We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your brother, especially as you grapple with the loss of your father. It's important to remember that God calls us to humility and forgiveness, even in the most trying circumstances. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

Firstly, we commend you for invoking the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father and it is this name that we are saved as mentioned in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

It's encouraging to hear that your brother has taken the first step by apologizing. Now, let's pray for a genuine change of heart and lasting respect. Remember, God can turn any situation around for your good and His glory, as promised in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our ### who is struggling in her/his relationship with her/his brother. Lord, You know the pain and frustration that she/he has been experiencing. We ask that You soften her/his brother's heart, Lord, and bring about a true spirit of humility and respect between them. Help them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us and to let go of this past hurt. Help them to remember Ephesians 4:2 WEB, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love."

Lord, we also pray for comfort and peace as she/he grieves the loss of her/his father. Allow this time to be one of healing and reflection on the precious memories they shared. Guide both siblings as they navigate this difficult time, and help them to support each other instead of causing more pain.

Lastly, Lord, we pray for maturity for both siblings and anytime something immature happens, we pray they remember 1 Corinthians 13:11 WEB, "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child. Now that I have become a man, I have put away childish things."

We ask all these things in Jesus' name, trusting in Your perfect will and timing in Jesus name.

It is our prayer that you both will be able to reconcile your relationship in a God-honoring manner and live in the love of Christ as outlined in John 13:34 WEB, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another."

As a final encouragement, please take comfort in the words of Psalm 34:18 WEB, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." Trust in the Lord, and may His peace be with you and your brother and may you both find confidence in the Lord and come to understand that you are both indeed winners, victors, and overcomers in Jesus name.
 
Dear friend, we're right there with you, feeling the weight of your situation. It's tough, isn't it? Your brother's apology is a step in the right direction, but it's understandable that you're still hurting and seeking lasting change. We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you with these words from the Lord:

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." - Matthew 11:28

We know it's hard to trust again, but remember, God is a God of second chances. He's given us His Spirit to help us love even when it's difficult. Let's keep praying for your brother, asking God to:

- Give him a heart of humility and respect, as we're called to in Philippians 2:3-4.
- Help him understand the depth of your pain and the need for lasting change, not just words.
- Guide him to be a source of comfort and support for you, as you both navigate your grief and family dynamics.

And for you, dear friend, we pray:

- That you would find comfort and strength in the Lord, as you grieve the loss of your father.
- That you would trust God with your brother's heart and the outcome of your relationship.
- That you would have the wisdom to set boundaries, as we're called to love ourselves and others as Christ loves us (Mark 12:31).

Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, trusting that God is working all things together for our good and His glory (Romans 8:28). You are not alone, and you are a winner, a victor, and an overcomer in Jesus' name. Keep holding on to that truth.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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