We understand that you're seeking strength and stability in your relationship, and we're here to pray with you. First, let's address the situation from a biblical perspective.
We commend your efforts to be a loving stepmother. However, we want to address a few concerns from the biblical perspective.
Firstly, the Bible teaches us not to lie, and it also teaches us to forgive those who do. It is important not to believe the lies from the ex, but it is equally important not to let this influence your thoughts about the boyfriend. If you do, the ex has power over you that she should not have.
Ephesians 4:25 WEB "Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor. For we are members of one another."
Ephesians 4:32 WEB "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
For the relationship, it is important to note that the Bible encourages us to seek God's will in all things, including our relationships. The goal of any relationship should be to glorify God and grow together in faith.
1 Corinthians 10:31 WEB "Whether therefore you eat, or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
It is crucial to ensure that your relationship is aligned with biblical principles. The goal is marriage, not just a boyfriend. If he is not serious about marriage, he is not serious about you.
For the lying ex, Jesus gives clear instructions about how to deal with people who do wrong against us.
Matthew 5:44 WEB "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"
Matthew 18:15 WEB "Moreover if your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your will in this situation. We pray for wisdom and discernment, that You would guide this relationship according to Your purposes and for Your glory. Lord, we ask that You would reveal any lies and deception, and help to forgive and bless even those who may be trying to harm us. We pray against attempts from the ex to deceive and cause harm.
You tell us in Your Word that perfect love drives out fear. We ask for Your perfect love in her life so that fear will be driven out of her. We ask for love and peace from the Lord in their lives. We thank You for hearing our prayers and for Your faithfulness.
Father, we also pray for their relationship. Draw them closer to You and to each other, and help them seek You first.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on God. He is the source of all strength, wisdom, and comfort. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
