Rejected through abuse

Anonymous

Beloved of All
When people reject you or TRY to cause you harm is this God’s way of saying leave? For example, if you are dealing with workplace abuse ((not just toxic) where one or more people gang up on you, physically and verbally assault you, are corrupt and you pray for change, you speak to the individuals to see if the PATTERN will stop. They continue and the situation worsens. Does God expect you to just “sit there and take it?” Just because you’re making income? Or is He saying come out from among them and saving you from his judgement and further abuse. I believe that staying in an abusive environment enables sinful behavior and is not showing people that there are consequences for their actions. Meaning if employees are treated badly (action) they will LEAVE (consequence). This is not the same as vengeance which belongs to the Lord or “taking matters into our own hands.” This is saying no more, enough even though the aftermath is financial disaster. In Jesus name, please cover me and all who are struggling because of loss of income whether through layoffs or unjust means. It’s really hard out there.

Added NOTE. There are some people in DV situations that feel that they cannot just leave because there’s even more danger involved. I’m really speaking about workplace dynamics. I need income and I’m praying in Jesus name for doors of opportunity to open soon based on my submitted job applications, please.
 
We understand the deep pain and frustration you are experiencing in this season of rejection, abuse, and uncertainty. The Lord sees the suffering you endure, and His heart is grieved by the wickedness of those who oppress the innocent. You have asked a profound question: *Is this God’s way of saying “leave”?* The Scriptures provide clear guidance for such times, and we must weigh this carefully in the light of His Word.

The Bible does not call us to remain in environments where sin is not only tolerated but actively perpetuated against us. In 2 Corinthians 6:14-18, the Lord commands, *“Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What connection does light have with darkness?... ‘Therefore come out from among them, and be separate,’ says the Lord. ‘Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you. I will be to you a Father. You will be to me sons and daughters,’ says the Lord Almighty.”* While this passage speaks primarily of spiritual alignment, the principle applies—we are not to remain in bondage to systemic evil when we have the means to depart. Proverbs 22:3 reminds us, *“A prudent man sees danger and hides; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it.”* Wisdom often means recognizing when a season has ended and trusting God to provide another way.

You are correct that staying in an abusive workplace can enable sinful behavior by allowing the wicked to act without consequence. While vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19), removing yourself from harm is not vengeance—it is stewardship of the life and dignity God has given you. Jesus Himself instructed His disciples in Matthew 10:14, *“Whoever doesn’t receive you or hear your words, as you go out of that house or that city, shake off the dust from your feet."* There comes a point where continued endurance is not godliness but complicity in the enemy’s schemes. The Lord does not require you to submit to abuse in the name of “patience” when He has already given you the discernment to recognize the danger.

That said, we must also acknowledge the very real fear of financial ruin that keeps many trapped in toxic situations. You have prayed for open doors, and we join you in that plea, trusting that the Lord is faithful to provide. Philippians 4:19 assures us, *“My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”* Yet we must also prepare practically—seeking counsel, updating resumes, networking, and saving where possible—while keeping our eyes fixed on Him. The Israelites did not leave Egypt without plundering its wealth (Exodus 12:35-36), and the Lord may well have a strategy for your transition that includes His provision even in the wilderness season.

For those in domestic violence situations, the dynamics are far more complex, and we urge extreme caution, wise counsel, and a safety plan. But in the workplace, where you have agency to leave, the question becomes: *What is the cost of staying?* If the environment is corrupting your soul, stealing your peace, or forcing you to compromise your integrity, then the income is not worth the price. The Lord values your well-being more than any paycheck. Remember the words of Mark 8:36: *“For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?”*

We rebuke the spirit of fear that whispers you will starve or fail if you step out in faith. The God who fed Elijah by ravens (1 Kings 17:4-6) and provided manna in the desert (Exodus 16) is the same God who holds your future. We also rebuke the lie that your worth is tied to your employment or the approval of wicked people. Psalm 37:25 declares, *“I have been young, and now am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken nor his children begging for bread.”* Trust that the Lord will not abandon you in obedience.

Now, let us pray over you and all who are suffering in similar ways:

*Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, who is weary from the assaults of the wicked and the weight of rejection. Lord, You see the injustice, the corruption, and the pain inflicted upon them. We ask for Your divine wisdom to know when to stay and when to go, but most of all, we ask for the courage to obey whatever You speak. Break the chains of fear that bind them to toxic environments. If it is Your will for them to depart, open doors no man can shut and provide supernaturally—whether through a new job, unexpected resources, or creative solutions they have not yet considered. Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and let those who have harmed them face the consequences of their actions in a way that leads to repentance.

For those waiting on Your timing, grant them supernatural endurance and protection. Surround them with Your angels as a guard (Psalm 91:11). Give them favor with those in authority who can intervene, and expose the works of darkness that have operated in secret. Let justice roll down like waters (Amos 5:24), and let Your will be done in their workplace—whether through transformation or their deliverance from it.

We also pray for every person struggling with loss of income, whether through layoffs or unjust means. You are Jehovah Jireh, the Lord who provides. Meet their needs in ways that surpass their expectations. Restore what the locust has eaten (Joel 2:25), and let this season of lack become a testimony of Your faithfulness. Give them creative ideas, divine connections, and the strength to persevere without bitterness.

Lastly, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your peace over their hearts. Replace their anxiety with trust, their anger with forgiveness, and their despair with hope. Remind them that their identity is in Christ, not in their circumstances. May they walk in the confidence that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28), even when the path is unclear.

We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Provider. Amen.*

Stand firm in your faith, dear one. The Lord has not forgotten you. Keep seeking Him first (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will direct your steps. If you have not already, consider seeking godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you navigate this decision. And remember: *The battle belongs to the Lord.* Your obedience—whether to stay or go—will be honored by Him. He is making a way where there seems to be no way.
 
Dear friend, we're right there with you, feeling the weight of the rejection and abuse you've been enduring. It's heartbreaking to see the innocent suffer, and we know that God sees your pain. We want to encourage you, as we've been encouraged in times like these, with these words from Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

We understand your question, "Is this God's way of saying 'leave'?" The Bible indeed teaches us to flee from sin and not to remain in environments where it's actively perpetuated against us. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, we're instructed to "flee from sexual immorality." While this passage speaks specifically about sexual sin, the principle applies more broadly - we shouldn't remain in situations that enable sinful behavior.

We're reminded of the story of Daniel in the Bible. When faced with the choice between obeying God or compromising his faith, Daniel chose to obey God, even when it meant facing the consequences. He could have stayed quiet, but he chose to speak up and trust God with the outcome (Daniel 1:8-16). Similarly, we must trust God with the consequences of our obedience.

Remember, too, that God is a God of justice. In Isaiah 61:8, He promises, "I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten." He sees your struggle, and He will make it up to you.

We're also reminded of the story of Ruth. When faced with the decision to stay in a foreign land or return to her own, Ruth chose to stay with her mother-in-law, Naomi, saying, "Where you go, I will go; where you stay, I will stay; your people will be my people, and your God will be my God" (Ruth 1:16). Sometimes, staying is an act of faithfulness and obedience.

We encourage you to seek wise counsel, perhaps from a trusted pastor or mentor. They can provide guidance based on your specific situation and help you discern God's will for you.

In all this, let's remember to trust in God's goodness and sovereignty. He loves you deeply and is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). He hasn't brought you this far to abandon you now.

Let's pray together, "Lord, give our friend wisdom and courage as they navigate this difficult situation. Help them to know when to stay and when to go, and to trust in Your goodness and sovereignty. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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