Reconciliation

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Myself and my son haven't spoken to each other for ### years. His name is ###. Please pray for us both.

 

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We lift up this deep wound of broken relationship between you and your son before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of reconciliation and restoration. The Scriptures remind us in **2 Corinthians 5:18-19 (WEB)**, *"But all things are of God, who reconciled us to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave to us the ministry of reconciliation; namely, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to himself, not reckoning to them their trespasses, and having committed to us the word of reconciliation."* If God can reconcile sinners to Himself through Christ, He can certainly mend the breach between a parent and child.

Yet we must also acknowledge that reconciliation requires humility, repentance, and a willingness to forgive—qualities that only the Holy Spirit can cultivate in our hearts. **Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB)** commands us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Have you examined your own heart for any unresolved bitterness, pride, or unwillingness to extend grace? Similarly, we pray that your son’s heart would be softened to receive both conviction and comfort from the Lord.

We do not know the reasons for this estrangement, but we urge you to seek the Lord’s wisdom in how to approach your son. **Proverbs 15:1 (WEB)** tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If you have not already, consider writing a letter—or speaking in person if possible—expressing your love, your sorrow for any ways you may have failed him, and your desire for restoration. Avoid defensiveness or blame, and instead, let your words be seasoned with grace (**Colossians 4:6**).

At the same time, we must trust in God’s sovereignty. Reconciliation may not happen immediately, or even in this life, but we can rest in the knowledge that God is at work. **Romans 8:28 (WEB)** assures us, *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."* Even in this painful season, God is shaping both of you for His glory.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Mediator and Reconciler. You alone can heal the deep wounds between this parent and child. Lord, we ask that You would break down the walls of pride, resentment, and unforgiveness that have kept them apart. Convict both of any sin that has contributed to this division, and grant them the humility to repent and seek forgiveness.

We pray specifically for [###], that You would soften his heart and draw him to Yourself. If he does not know You, Lord, save him and open his eyes to the truth of Your love. If he is a believer, remind him of Your command to honor his parents (**Ephesians 6:2**) and to pursue peace (**Romans 12:18**). Give him the courage to reach out, to listen, and to extend grace.

For this parent, we ask for wisdom and patience. Show them how to love their son well, even if reconciliation is slow. Guard their heart from despair, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Let them rest in the truth that You are working, even when they cannot see it.

Lord, we ask that You would orchestrate opportunities for restoration. Whether through a phone call, a letter, or a divine appointment, make a way where there seems to be no way. Let Your love cover the multitude of sins (**1 Peter 4:8**), and let forgiveness flow freely between them.

Most of all, Father, we pray that both would draw closer to You in this season. May their longing for reconciliation with each other drive them to seek reconciliation with You first. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who lived, died, and rose again to reconcile us to God. Amen.

Finally, we encourage you to persist in prayer and to trust in the Lord’s timing. **Galatians 6:9 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season if we don’t give up."* Keep seeking the Lord, and if the opportunity arises, take steps of faith toward reconciliation. God is faithful, and He hears the cries of His children.

 

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We've been thinking about you and your son, and we want you to know that we're right there with you in prayer. We believe in the power of our loving Father to heal and restore broken relationships. Like the prodigal son, we trust that our heavenly Father is waiting with open arms, ready to welcome both of you back into a place of unity and love.

We're reminded of the story in 2 Kings 4:32-37, where Elisha raised the Shunammite's son from the dead. The mother, in her desperation, had cried out to Elisha, "Did I ask you for a son, my lord?" (verse 28, NIV). She was expressing her pain and frustration, much like you might be feeling now. But Elisha didn't dismiss her or tell her to be patient. Instead, he went to her and brought her son back to life.

We want to encourage you, dear friend, to keep crying out to God. Pour out your heart to Him, and trust that He hears you. He sees your pain, and He cares deeply about the relationship between you and your son. Just as Elisha went to the Shunammite woman, we believe God wants to meet you in your need and bring healing to your situation.

We're also reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 18:19-20, "Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them." We're agreeing with you in prayer, and we trust that our Father in heaven will answer.

So, let's keep praying, let's keep trusting, and let's keep believing in the power of our loving God to bring restoration and healing to your relationship with your son. We're right here with you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.