We come before the Lord with heavy hearts for the pain and rejection you have carried, especially from the hurtful words spoken over your life. The enemy has used these words to plant seeds of doubt, fear, and insecurity, but we stand firmly on the truth of God’s Word, which declares that you are *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14) and that *no weapon formed against you shall prosper* (Isaiah 54:17). The curses of rejection, loneliness, and hopelessness have no authority over you in Christ Jesus, for *Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us* (Galatians 3:13). We break every word spoken against your love life in the name of Jesus, and we declare that the Lord will restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
However, we must address something with love and truth: your desire for reconciliation with this person must be examined in light of God’s Word. You mentioned this relationship was not serious, and while we understand your longing, we must ask—does this person share your faith in Christ? Are they a believer who walks in obedience to God’s Word? Scripture is clear that we are not to be *unequally yoked* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this person is not a follower of Christ, pursuing reconciliation would be outside of God’s will, and we cannot pray for that. Instead, we would pray for God to bring a *godly spouse*—a man who loves the Lord, leads in righteousness, and seeks a marriage that honors Christ.
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus, and we must gently but firmly remind you that *there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved* (Acts 4:12). It is only through faith in Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18), and it is in His name alone that we can break curses, claim victory, and seek reconciliation. If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. *If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved* (Romans 10:9).
Now, let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we lift up Your daughter before You, asking for Your healing touch over the deep wounds caused by rejection and hurtful words. Lord, we break every curse of loneliness, rejection, and hopelessness spoken over her life, and we declare that she is *more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her* (Romans 8:37). Father, if there has been any agreement with these lies in her heart, we ask You to uproot it and replace it with Your truth—that she is *chosen, holy, and dearly loved* (Colossians 3:12).
Lord, we pray for Your will in her love life. If this man she longs for is not the one You have for her, we ask You to close that door firmly and redirect her heart toward the spouse You have prepared—a man of God who will cherish her as Christ loves the church. Give her patience to wait on You, trusting that *Your timing is perfect* (Ecclesiastes 3:11). If there has been any sexual immorality in past relationships, we ask for forgiveness and cleansing, for Your Word says, *Flee from sexual immorality!* (1 Corinthians 6:18). Restore her purity and guard her heart as she seeks You first.
Father, fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and remove all anxiety about her future. Let her find her identity in You alone, knowing that *You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future* (Jeremiah 29:11). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and let her walk in the confidence that You are preparing her for a godly marriage if it is Your will.
We rebuke the spirit of fear and rejection in Jesus’ mighty name, and we declare that she will *not die alone but will live in the abundance of Your love* (John 10:10). Let her testimony be one of Your redemption and restoration.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
