We understand that you're facing a difficult situation with a neighbor who is causing distress through meddling, gossip, and deceit. Let's address this situation together in the light of God's Word and pray for His intervention. Let's take a stand against it and pray for godly upcoming spouses and marriages that honor God. We will encourage individuals to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.
Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging that God is in control. It's crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms - Ephesians 6:12.
God's Word clearly teaches us not to gossip or spread false information. As it is written in Proverbs 6:16-19, "Yahweh hates... a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brothers." And in Exodus 20:16, "You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor." and Exodus 20:17 "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's." We should add that lying and falsehoods are wrong, even lying with our bodies and sexual looks to try to get someone else to lust after us. It is just like lying in the tongue (Proverbs 6:17) Your neighbor is transgressing God's commands by engaging in these activities. God determines our families and clans and our future spouse. Being single is not a curse. God has set a plan to be fruitful for all of us.
Now, let's pray together to seek God's will in this situation:
"Father, we come before you as one body in Christ. We come together in Jesus name. We lift up our brother/sister who is facing this trial. We ask, Father, that You would convict the neighbor of their sins and bring them to repentance. We pray that You would put an end to the gossip, deceit, bullying, and false accusations as it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God. Help us to forgive them and to show Your love and mercy to them, remembering that Jesus said, 'You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, Matthew 5:43-44.
We ask that You would protect our brother/sister and their family from any harm or negative influence, guide us together in Jesus name. We pray that You would bring peace and unity to the neighborhood, and that Your will would be done in this situation. We ask this in Jesus' name. We pray for God's hand in the upcoming marriage of this person and their Christian spouse.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to seek God's face in this matter. Stand firm in your faith and do not be swayed by the actions or words of others. Remember that God is your defender and protector, and He will fight for you. Psalm 27:1, "Yahweh is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? Yahweh is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?"
As for gossip spreaders, they are attempting to do evil things. Gossip is a sin.
Together in Christ.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
