Really need help to let go of this marriage ...

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Really need help to let go of this marriage and turn it over to God - been praying a lot for healing but I realize I can't fix it; only GOD can. Until my husband sees how destructive and selfish his actions have been to the kids and me, it's pretty much useless. Heart hurts seeing wedding vows turned into meaningless and watching others become his priority over God and our family. Shocked over seeing a man do what he is doing to his family and really fighting with the belief that marriage is forever when I see how selfish he's become and how little he sees and the daily broken vows. Really really need peace that comes from God in my heart over this marriage and turn it over to him. Because I'm lost and confused on keeping my vows when I'm so mistreated and our children are devalued by selfishness and self-destruction from a man who puts himself and "acquaintances" above God & family.
 
Ƹ̴ÓÌ´Æ·.¸¸.•´¯`»Sending prayers to you and everyone around you, in Jesus Name».¸¸.•´¯`» Ƹ̴ÓÌ´Æ·
 
Heavenly Father, I lift up all hurting marriages, including my own, to You for healing and restoration according to Your will. In Jesus' name, Amen.
 
It is my prayer that all hurting marriages can be healed including yours and my own. God Bless
 
Dear ###, I have been going through a very similar situation as a husband of an unfaithful wife. What I have come to realize is when these challenges come, if you run to Him who sits on the throne of heaven, He always has an answer. Seldom is it immediate, or on our time schedule. But if you truly trust Him and look for Him in every situation, you will see His hand at work. I challenge you to sharpen your focus on your personal relationship with Christ, but seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matt 6:33. In God's word you will find nuggets of truth, that if you put these in your heart you will be building your faith. In the meantime, if you strengthen yourself and praise Him in the midst of your storm, you will have peace.

Praying for you
 
I am praying for you! I know it is tough when we feel like we are not being honored as a spouse, I am there as well. But the best thing you can do is to see Christ in your spouse. Love your spouse like you love the Lord and God will bless you. Treat your husband well because that is how God treats us, and do not expect anything from him. Your Father in Heaven will take care of you during this storm. It won't be like that forever, God will reward your faith and love in His way, if we only trust Him.

Lord, please bless your servant tonight and always and help seek her husband's heart and help him to be the spouse that you desire him to be. Amen.
 
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