We stand with you in this spiritual battle for your family, lifting our voices in agreement with your prayers and declaring the power and authority of our Lord Jesus Christ over every situation you’ve described. It is clear that the enemy is at work, seeking to bring division, confusion, and destruction, but we know that greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). You have done well to plead the blood of Jesus over your household, for it is by His blood that we overcome the accuser (Revelation 12:11). Let us address each area of your request with Scripture, prayer, and godly counsel, trusting the Lord to move mightily in response to our united faith.
The situation with your older daughter is deeply concerning, particularly as she is entangled with this young man and his family. Scripture is clear that we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this young man and his mother are fostering rebellion, manipulation, and isolation, they are not operating under the Spirit of God but under the influence of the enemy. Your daughter’s living arrangement outside of marriage is also a grave concern, as it is contrary to God’s design for purity and holiness. Fornication is a sin against her own body and against God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and it opens the door to spiritual bondage. We must pray not only for her deliverance from this ungodly relationship but also for her repentance and return to righteousness. The Lord desires for her to walk in freedom, and that begins with surrendering her heart fully to Him.
We also recognize the urgency in your prayer for the complete removal of these individuals from your daughter’s life. While we trust the Lord to intervene, we must also encourage you to take godly action where possible. If your daughter is of age, she has the responsibility to choose wisely, but as her parent, you can continue to speak truth in love, setting boundaries that reflect biblical values. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to train up a child in the way they should go, and even when they are grown, we can still point them to Christ through our words, prayers, and example. Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not faint (Galatians 6:9).
Regarding your son, we lift him up to the Lord, asking for divine healing and peace over his mind and emotions. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Autism, PTSD, and anxiety are not beyond God’s healing power, whether that healing comes through supernatural intervention or through the wisdom and care of godly professionals. We pray that the Lord would surround your son with His presence, casting out every fear and tormenting spirit. May he rest in the assurance that he is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and may the Lord grant him supernatural peace that guards his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For your younger daughter, we ask the Lord to strengthen her body, protect her mind, and bless her future with godly relationships. It is beautiful that you are praying for a godly spouse for both of your daughters, for marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). We pray that the Lord would prepare their hearts now, even in this season of waiting, to be women of virtue, wisdom, and faith. May they seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, trusting that all things—including a spouse—will be added to them in His perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
As for the holiday season, we declare that the Lord will restore joy, unity, and peace to your family. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). Do not allow the schemes of the enemy to rob you of the blessings the Lord has in store. Instead, fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust Him to redeem this season for His glory. Let your home be a place where the presence of the Lord is tangibly felt, where laughter and love abound, and where the enemy has no foothold.
Finally, we want to commend you for praying in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is by His name that we have the authority to rebuked the enemy and declare victory. Keep your faith anchored in Christ, for He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in your family (Philippians 1:6).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, agreeing with our sister in faith for the protection, deliverance, and restoration of her family. Lord, we ask that You would surround their home with Your heavenly angels, stationing them at every door, window, and corner as a divine guard. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every tongue that rises against them in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). We plead the blood of Jesus over every member of this family, declaring that they are covered by Your sacrifice and shielded by Your power.
Father, we lift up this older daughter who is ensnared by the enemy’s schemes. Lord, open her eyes to the truth of her situation. Convict her heart of any sin, including the sin of fornication, and lead her to repentance. Break every ungodly soul tie between her and this young man, and sever every connection his family has tried to establish over her life. Lord, we pray for a spirit of godly sorrow to fall upon her, that she may turn away from this rebellion and return to You and to her family. Give her the courage to walk away from this destructive relationship and the wisdom to seek godly counsel. Restore her heart to a place of humility and obedience, and let her find her worth and identity in You alone.
We bind the spirits of manipulation, control, obsession, and division that are operating through this young man and his mother. Lord, frustrate their plans and expose their deeds. Let their influence be cut off completely, and let Your light shine so brightly in this situation that every darkness flees. We declare that no weapon they form against this family shall prosper, and we command every demonic assignment against them to be nullified by the blood of Jesus.
Father, we pray for this young man and his mother, not out of hatred, but out of a desire for their salvation. Lord, if they do not know You, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself. Convict them of their sins and lead them to repentance, that they may turn from their wicked ways and find redemption in Christ. But if they refuse to turn from their evil, Lord, we ask that You would remove their influence entirely from this family. Let no root of bitterness or ungodly connection remain.
For the son in this family, Lord, we ask for Your healing touch. You know the depths of his struggles—autism, PTSD, anxiety—and You are the God who heals. We pray for supernatural peace to flood his mind and for Your comfort to surround him. Let him rest in Your presence tonight, free from torment and fear. Heal his emotions, Lord, and restore his joy. Let him know that he is deeply loved by You and that You have a purpose for his life.
We lift up the younger daughter, asking for Your protection over her body, mind, and spirit. Strengthen her, Lord, and bless her with godly friendships that encourage her faith. Prepare her heart for the future You have for her, including a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the Church. Let her walk in purity and wisdom, and may she find her satisfaction in You alone.
Father, we declare that this holiday season will be marked by Your peace and joy in this home. Restore what the enemy has tried to steal, and let this family experience the unity and love that comes from You. Fill their home with Your glory, Lord, and let Your presence be their greatest gift. We rebuked every spirit of fear, division, and sadness, and we declare that the joy of the Lord is their strength (Nehemiah 8:10).
Lord, we thank You for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your power to bring about victory in this situation. Let Your will be done in this family, and let Your name be glorified through their lives. We ask all of this in the precious and mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Stand firm in your faith, dear sister. The Lord is with you, and He will fight for your family. Continue to pray without ceasing, to speak life and truth over your children, and to trust in the Lord’s timing. He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Do not lose heart, for the battle belongs to the Lord, and He has already won the victory. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and walk in the confidence that He is working all things together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28).
