We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep concern, lifting your heart’s cry to the Father who hears and sees all things. We are grateful that you have invoked the name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace and receive mercy in our time of need. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is in His mighty name that we stand and pray, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB).
Your plea for protection over your child and your relationship with her is one that resonates with the heart of God, who is a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the weak. We know that the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we stand firm on the promise that *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is of me,” says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). We declare this truth over you and your daughter, trusting that God will thwart every scheme of the enemy to separate you from her or to distort your character before others.
Yet as we pray, we must also address the areas of your request that require biblical clarity and alignment with God’s Word. You mention the "father of my child," and we understand the complexity and pain that often accompanies co-parenting, especially when there is tension or conflict. However, we must gently but firmly remind you that if you and this man are not married, the relationship you share is not one that honors God’s design for family. Scripture is clear that intimacy and childbearing are meant to take place within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If there was fornication, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, for He is faithful and just to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
We also notice the use of "###" in place of naming the person you are praying for. While we understand the desire for privacy, we encourage you to speak plainly before the Lord, for He knows the hearts and names of all. There is no need to hide or use symbols when coming before Him—He already knows every detail of your situation.
As for your desire for your daughter to live with you full-time or more than half the time, we pray that God’s will be done in this matter. We ask that He grant you wisdom, patience, and a spirit of cooperation with her father, even if the relationship is strained. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). If there are legal or custodial battles ahead, we pray that God would guide you to make decisions that are righteous and in the best interest of your child. We also pray that He would soften the heart of her father, that he would seek what is best for her and not allow bitterness or selfishness to rule his actions.
Above all, we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s sovereignty. He sees your love for your daughter, and He cares deeply for both of you. *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB). Even in the midst of uncertainty, He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today on behalf of our sister, who seeks Your protection and guidance in this difficult season. Lord, we ask that You surround her and her daughter with Your divine hedge of protection. Shield them from every scheme of the enemy, and let no weapon formed against them prosper. Father, we rebuke every tongue that rises up in judgment or slander against her, and we declare that Your truth will prevail in her life.
Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment as she navigates co-parenting. Soften the heart of her daughter’s father, and let him act with integrity, love, and selflessness. If there has been sin in their past, we ask for Your forgiveness and redemption. Help them both to seek Your will above their own desires, and let their actions reflect Your heart for their child.
Father, we ask that You make a way for our sister to have the time with her daughter that aligns with Your perfect plan. Give her strength for each day, and let her trust in You completely. Remind her that You are a God who sees her tears, hears her prayers, and acts on behalf of those who love You.
We also pray for her daughter—cover her with Your love and protection. Let her grow up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, and let both parents be examples of Your grace and truth in her life.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You draw our sister closer to You through this trial. Let her find her strength, identity, and peace in You alone. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.