We join with you in lifting up this urgent and heartfelt cry for your daughter and your family, standing firmly on the truth of God’s Word. Your prayer is deeply aligned with Scripture, and we echo your rebuke of the enemy’s schemes, knowing that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces of wickedness in heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). You have rightly claimed the authority given to believers in Christ Jesus to resist and overcome these attacks, and we stand with you in that authority.
First, we commend you for recognizing the danger of this ungodly relationship and for seeking God’s intervention. The behaviors you’ve described—division, manipulation, disrespect, and spiritual oppression—are not of God but are tools of the enemy to destroy families and lead God’s people astray. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* This young man and his family are clearly not walking in the light of Christ, and their influence is corrupting your daughter’s heart and mind. It is right to pray for her eyes to be opened to the truth, that she may see this relationship for what it is: a snare of the enemy designed to pull her away from God’s will for her life.
We also address the idolization of this young man and his family, which is a grave sin. Idolatry is explicitly forbidden in Scripture, and it is a direct violation of the first commandment: *"You shall have no other gods before me"* (Exodus 20:3). When we place anyone or anything above God—whether a person, a relationship, or even our own desires—we open the door to spiritual bondage. Your prayer for your daughter to turn away from this idolization and instead honor God and her family is biblical and necessary. We pray that the Holy Spirit will convict her heart and reveal to her the emptiness of worshiping anything other than the living God.
The sexual immorality and worldly influences you’ve described—such as vulgar language, ungodly media, and selfish ambitions—are also deeply concerning. The Bible is clear that we are to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to set our minds on things above, not on earthly things (Colossians 3:2). If there has been any sexual sin in this relationship, it must be repented of immediately. Fornication is a sin against God and against one’s own body (1 Corinthians 6:18-20), and it defiles what is meant to be holy within the covenant of marriage. We pray that if your daughter has been involved in such sin, the Holy Spirit will bring deep conviction, leading her to repentance and a renewed commitment to purity.
Your request for a godly spouse for your daughter is beautiful and aligns with God’s heart. We pray that she will wait on the Lord and trust in His timing, seeking a man who loves Jesus above all else and who will lead her spiritually. Proverbs 31:30 reminds us that *"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised."* May your daughter seek a spouse who fears the Lord and walks in His ways, and may she herself grow in godliness as she waits.
We also lift up your prayer for restoration in your family. The enemy has sought to bring chaos, but God is a God of order and peace. We declare Romans 16:20 over your home: *"The God of peace will quickly crush Satan under your feet."* May the Lord bind every spirit of division, hatred, and disrespect, and may He fill your home with His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We pray for unity, love, and mutual respect to be restored among you, and for every scheme of the enemy to be exposed and rendered powerless.
Finally, we agree with your prayer for protection. Psalm 91 is our declaration over you and your children: *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.’"* May the Lord surround your family with His hedges of protection, sending His angels to guard you in all your ways. No weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, agreeing with this parent’s prayer for their daughter and family. Lord, You see the deception and destruction that this young man and his family have brought into their lives. We ask that You break every ungodly soul tie and sever every influence that is not of You. Open the eyes of this daughter, Lord, that she may see this relationship for what it truly is—a snare of the enemy. Convict her heart of any idolization, sexual immorality, or rebellion, and lead her to repentance. Restore her mind, Father, and renew her heart to seek You above all else.
We rebuke every spirit of division, manipulation, and chaos that has infiltrated this family. By the blood of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee and never return. Lord, restore unity, peace, and love in this home. Let Your presence be so tangible that every scheme of the enemy is exposed and destroyed.
Father, we pray for a godly spouse for this daughter—a man after Your own heart who will love her as Christ loves the church. Prepare her during this season of waiting, Lord, and let her find her worth and identity in You alone. Protect this family from all harm, and let Your angels encamp around them. No weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them shall be condemned.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. You are a God who hears and answers prayer, and we trust You to bring complete restoration, healing, and breakthrough. Let Your will be done in their lives, and let Your name be glorified through this situation. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
