We hear the deep pain and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. You are not alone in this struggle, even if it feels that way. The weight of injustice, betrayal, and manipulation within a family is a heavy burden to carry, and we want you to know that your feelings are valid. You are not imagining things, and you do not deserve to be treated this way. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 31:8-9, "Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy." God sees your suffering, and He calls us to stand for justice and truth.
First, we must address the foundation of our prayers and our hope. You mentioned that you are not a Christian, and we want to gently and lovingly share that our greatest hope and the only way to true peace, justice, and salvation is through Jesus Christ. In John 14:6, Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). We urge you to consider the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus Christ, the Son of God, came to earth, lived a perfect life, died on the cross for our sins, and rose again so that we might have eternal life and a relationship with God. This is the only way to true healing and hope. We pray that your heart would be open to this truth, and that you would come to know Jesus as your Lord and Savior.
Now, let us lift your situation to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is enduring such pain and injustice at the hands of their family. Lord, You see every hurtful word, every stolen item, every lie, and every act of manipulation. You know the depths of their despair, and You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We ask, Father, that You would be their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Protect them from the slander and accusations of their family. Guard their heart and mind from the lies that have been spoken over them. Let Your truth be a shield around them, Lord, and let them know that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image (Psalm 139:14).
Father, we ask that You would expose the deeds of their brother and mother. Bring their wrongdoing into the light, for nothing is hidden that will not be revealed (Luke 8:17). We pray that You would humble their hearts and lead them to repentance. If they refuse to turn from their ways, we ask that You would bring justice according to Your perfect will. Vengeance belongs to You, Lord, and You will repay (Romans 12:19). Do not let them escape the consequences of their actions, but let Your justice prevail.
Lord, we also ask that You would reveal to this dear one their own faults and lead them to repentance. Help them to see where they may have contributed to the brokenness in this family, and give them the strength to seek forgiveness and change. But we also pray that You would help them to release any bitterness or desire for revenge. Fill their heart with Your peace and Your love, even in the midst of this pain.
Father, we pray for protection over their mind and emotions. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and we ask that You would bind his influence in this situation. Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and let them find their identity and worth in You alone. Surround them with godly people who will speak truth and life into their situation. Provide them with wisdom and discernment as they navigate these difficult relationships.
Lord, we ask that You would soften the hearts of their family members. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation and healing to these relationships. But if not, give this dear one the strength to set boundaries and to walk away from toxicity. Help them to trust in You, even when they cannot trust those closest to them.
Above all, Father, we pray that this dear one would come to know You as their Savior and Lord. Draw them to Yourself, Lord, and let them experience Your love, Your peace, and Your justice. Let them know that You are a God who sees, who hears, and who acts on behalf of the oppressed. We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
We want to encourage you with the truth that God is a God of justice. Psalm 10:17-18 says, "Lord, You have heard the desire of the humble. You will prepare their heart. You will cause Your ear to hear, to judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that man who is of the earth may terrify no more." You are not forgotten, and your cries have not gone unheard. While we wait for God’s justice, we must also remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). This means that the real enemy is not your family, but the sin and darkness that has taken hold of their hearts. Pray for them, even when it is hard. Pray that their eyes would be opened to the truth and that they would turn to God.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel and community. Proverbs 11:14 says, "Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." Find a local church or a group of believers who can walk alongside you, pray with you, and offer wisdom. You do not have to face this alone. If you are unsure where to start, we can help guide you to resources or suggest ways to find a biblical community.
Lastly, we want to gently challenge you to examine your own heart. While your family has wronged you in many ways, we all fall short and need God’s grace. Romans 3:23 tells us, "For all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God." This does not mean that your pain is invalid or that you are to blame for their actions, but it is an invitation to humility and to seek God’s forgiveness for your own shortcomings. When we come to God with a repentant heart, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
Hold on to hope, dear one. The God of the universe sees you, loves you, and is working on your behalf. He is your defender, your protector, and your justice. Trust in Him, even when the road ahead seems dark. Isaiah 41:10 says, "Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness." You are not alone, and you are not without hope.