We join with you in lifting up your daughter and your family before the Lord, standing in agreement that His will be done in this situation. You have come before the Father in the mighty name of Jesus, and we know that He hears and answers the prayers of His people. The Scriptures remind us in John 14:13-14, *"Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."* This is a promise we cling to as we intercede for your daughter and your family.
Your heartache is evident as you describe the deception, manipulation, and ungodly influences that have taken root in your daughter’s life. We grieve with you over the spiritual and emotional bondage she is under, but we take courage in knowing that our God is mightier than any scheme of the enemy. The Apostle Paul assures us in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, *"For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."* This is not a battle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces, and we are equipped with divine power to tear down every stronghold in Jesus’ name.
We stand with you in rebuking the ungodly soul ties that have formed between your daughter and this young man, as well as the influence of his family. The Bible is clear that we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and any relationship that draws her away from Christ and from the godly values she was raised with must be broken. We pray that the Lord will sever these ties completely, that this young man would walk away and never return, and that if he refuses to repent, the Lord would remove him far from her path. Proverbs 13:20 warns, *"He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Your daughter was not created to be ensnared by foolishness or manipulation, but to walk in the freedom and wisdom of Christ.
We also address the seriousness of the living arrangement you described. If your daughter is living with this young man outside of marriage, this is fornication, which is explicitly condemned in Scripture. 1 Corinthians 6:18 commands, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* Additionally, Hebrews 13:4 declares, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict your daughter of this sin and lead her to repentance. May she recognize that her body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) and that she is called to holiness, not to be bound by the sins of the flesh or the schemes of those who do not honor God.
Your prayer for her eyes to be opened to the truth resonates with our own cry to the Lord. We ask that He would remove the scales from her eyes, just as He did for Saul on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:18). May she see the idolatry in her heart—whether it is the idolization of this relationship, the approval of man, or the comforts of this world—and turn back to the Lord with all her heart. We pray that she would remember the love and values she was raised with and that the Lord would restore her mind to soundness and clarity. As it is written in Romans 12:2, *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."*
We agree with you in praying for financial restoration and freedom from any unjust debts or obligations tied to this young man. The Lord is her Provider, and we trust that He will restore what has been taken and supply all her needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). We rebuke the spirit of greed and manipulation that has led to her supporting this young man at the expense of her own well-being, including her inability to afford health insurance. This is not the Lord’s will for her. We declare that every financial chain be broken and that she would be released from any ungodly responsibility placed upon her by this man or his family.
We also lift up your request for godly men to be raised up for your daughters—men who fear the Lord, honor their families, and lead with integrity. The Bible sets a high standard for those who would pursue marriage, and we pray that your daughters would wait upon the Lord for husbands who meet this standard. Proverbs 18:22 tells us, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Likewise, a woman who finds a godly husband finds a great blessing. We pray that your daughters would not settle for less than God’s best and that they would seek first the Kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33), trusting that He will provide husbands who love Him above all else.
Finally, we stand with you in praying for protection, unity, and peace over your family. The enemy seeks to divide and destroy, but we declare that no weapon formed against your family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We pray that the Lord would fill your home with His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and that His love would bind your family together in unity. May the joy of the Lord be your strength (Nehemiah 8:10) as you trust in Him to restore, redeem, and protect.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this family and this daughter who has been led astray. Lord, You see the deception, the manipulation, and the ungodly influences that have taken hold of her life. We ask that You would expose every lie and break every ungodly soul tie between her and this young man, as well as his family. Remove their influence completely, Lord, and let this young man walk away and never return. Convict him of his sin, and if he refuses to repent, let Your hand of protection keep him far from her.
Father, we pray that You would open her eyes to see the truth. Let her recognize the idolatry in her heart and turn away from it. Restore her mind, Lord, and remind her of the love and values she was raised with. Bring her back home, both physically and spiritually, where she can be surrounded by godly love and support. Break the spirit of rebellion, brainwashing, and isolation that has taken hold of her, and let her heart soften toward her family once more.
Lord, we rebuke all curses, witchcraft, and spiritual attacks that stem from this relationship or any other source. Let them flee and never return, in Jesus’ name. We pray for financial restoration, that every cent taken unjustly would be returned, and that she would be free from any debt or obligation to this man. Provide for her needs, Father, and show her that You are her true Provider.
We pray that she would see clearly how this relationship is causing her harm, including the inability to afford health insurance because she is paying this young man’s expenses. Block him and his family from placing undue responsibilities on her, Lord. Let him move back to his own home, alone, and let her be free from his influence.
Jesus, we pray that she would surrender her heart fully to You. Let her seek You first, above any relationship, and let her find her worth and identity in Christ alone. Raise up godly men for her—men who will love You first, honor their families, and lead with integrity.
We rebuke every scheme of the enemy against this family. No weapon formed against them shall prosper. Fill their home with Your peace, unity, and joy. Let Your love be the bond that holds them together, unshaken by the attacks of the enemy.
Thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to restore, redeem, and protect this family. Let Your will be done in this situation, and let Your name be glorified. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.