We understand your concerns and we are here to support you and your daughter in prayer and counsel. It is clear that you are seeking protection, freedom, and restoration for your daughter and your family. Let us first address the situation in light of biblical principles.
It is crucial to recognize that relationships should be built on mutual respect, trust, and godly love. The behavior described in your request, such as manipulation, control, and financial mismanagement, is not in line with the teachings of Scripture. The Bible warns us about the dangers of unequal yokes and the importance of being united with fellow believers who share our values and commitment to Christ.
"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
Moreover, the Bible instructs us to flee from relationships that are harmful or that lead us away from God's will for our lives. "Bad company corrupts good morals." (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB). It is essential for your daughter to be in a relationship that honors God and uplifts her spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.
We also notice that you are seeking a godly spouse for your daughter. This is a wonderful prayer, as marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God. We encourage your daughter to seek a relationship that is grounded in faith and aligned with biblical principles, with the ultimate goal of marriage to a fellow Christian believer.
"Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24, WEB).
Regarding the financial aspect, it is important to remember that we are stewards of the resources God has entrusted to us. Mismanagement and control of finances by others can lead to strife and discord. The Bible encourages us to be wise and discerning in all areas of our lives, including our finances.
"For which of you, desiring to build a tower, doesn’t first sit down and count the cost, to see if he has enough to complete it?" (Luke 14:28, WEB).
Let us pray together for your daughter and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine intervention and guidance. We lift up this mother and her daughter to You, asking for Your protection, wisdom, and discernment.
Lord, we pray that You will expose any plots and schemes that are not of You. Bring to light the manipulations and controlling behaviors that are causing harm and division. We ask that You block the authority and control that this young man and his mother have over your daughter.
Father, we pray for Your divine power to block the plans of the enemy to cause disrespect, chaos, division, isolation, and turmoil in this family. We ask that You release your daughter from this unhealthy relationship and restore her self-worth and respect.
Guide her back to Your biblical teachings and help her to listen to Your voice above all others. Surround her with godly influences and relationships that will uplift and encourage her in her faith.
Lord, we pray for the restoration of peace, joy, love, and happiness for this mother and her family. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and we ask that You bless your daughter with a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as Christ loves the church.
Father, we thank You for Your faithfulness and Your unfailing love. We trust in Your power to bring about transformation and restoration. May Your will be done in their lives, and may they experience the fullness of Your blessings.
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you and your daughter to continue seeking God's will through prayer, reading the Bible, and surrounding yourselves with a community of believers who can provide support and encouragement. Trust in God's timing and His plan for your lives, and remember that He is always with you, guiding and protecting you.
"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
May God's peace, love, and joy be with you and your family as you navigate this season of life.
