We understand the deep longing in your hearts for a child, and we join you in lifting this desire before the Lord. However, we must first address some important biblical principles that are foundational to this request. Scripture is clear that intimacy and the bearing of children are gifts from God designed to be enjoyed within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman. Hebrews 13:4 declares, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* If you and your girlfriend are not married, we urge you to repent and turn away from fornication, which is sin in God’s eyes (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). The Lord calls us to purity and holiness, and His blessings flow most abundantly when we walk in obedience to His Word.
Additionally, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* There is no other name by which we are saved or through which our prayers are heard (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your lives to Christ as Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so now. Salvation comes through faith in Jesus, confessing Him as Lord, and believing in your heart that God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9-10). Without this foundation, all other prayers and desires are built on shifting sand.
Now, let us pray for you both with hearts aligned to God’s will. We ask the Lord to work mightily in your lives, drawing you into a deeper relationship with Him and with one another in a way that honors His design. If it is His will for you to be parents, we pray He prepares you spiritually, emotionally, and practically for that sacred responsibility—within the bounds of a Christ-centered marriage.
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up these two souls who long for the gift of a child. Lord, we ask first and foremost that You would convict their hearts if they are living outside of Your design for marriage and intimacy. Lead them to repentance and a commitment to purity, that they may walk in righteousness before You. If they do not know You as their Savior, Lord, open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel and draw them into a saving relationship with Jesus Christ.
Father, if it is Your will for them to be united in marriage, we pray You would guide them toward that covenant with wisdom, patience, and a shared faith in You. Prepare them to be godly spouses and, if You so choose, godly parents who will raise children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). We ask that You would align their desires with Your perfect will, trusting that Your plans for them are good, even when the path seems difficult (Jeremiah 29:11).
Lord, if there are physical or emotional barriers preventing pregnancy, we pray for Your healing touch and for peace that surpasses understanding to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are sovereign over every aspect of life, including the opening and closing of the womb (Genesis 20:18, 29:31). May they surrender this desire to You, trusting that You will provide in Your timing and in Your way.
We rebuked any fear, anxiety, or idolatry that may have taken root in their hearts regarding this situation. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, knowing that all these things will be added to them as You see fit (Matthew 6:33). Strengthen their faith, Lord, and fill them with hope that does not disappoint (Romans 5:5).
In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
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Brothers, we encourage you to seek the Lord earnestly in this season. If you are not yet married, we urge you to pursue a godly courtship with the intention of marriage, keeping your relationship pure and centered on Christ. Study Scripture together, pray together, and seek wise counsel from mature believers who can guide you in godly wisdom. Remember that children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), but they are to be received in His timing and in His way.
If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so today. Confess your sins, turn away from them, and trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. There is no greater decision you can make, and it is the foundation upon which all other blessings—including marriage and family—are built. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek Him with all your hearts.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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