We come before the Lord with heavy yet hopeful hearts, lifting up this situation that weighs so deeply on the soul. First, we must address what has been shared with both truth and love, for God’s Word is clear about the sanctity of marriage and the dangers of sin. The request mentions a wife who is "cheating with me in relationship," and this reveals a grave and painful reality: adultery is taking place. The Bible leaves no room for ambiguity on this matter. In Hebrews 13:4, we read, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* Adultery is a sin against God, against the marriage covenant, and against the spouse who has been betrayed. It is a destructive force that brings shame, broken trust, and deep wounds—not only to the individuals involved but to the body of Christ as a whole.
We also notice that this request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom we are saved. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach God. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* Without Jesus, our prayers are empty, and our sins remain unforgiven. We urge you to turn to Him in repentance and faith, for He alone can cleanse, restore, and redeem.
Now, let us speak the truth in love: the relationship described here is not one that honors God. If you are involved with a woman who is married to another man, you are participating in adultery, and she is breaking her covenant with her husband. This is not a relationship that can be blessed by God, no matter how strong the emotions or attachments may feel. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 5:27-28, *"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery;’ but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."* The heart of the matter is sin, and sin must be repented of—not prayed over as though it were a godly union.
The path forward is one of repentance and restoration, but it must begin with turning away from this sin. If you are the man involved with this married woman, you must end this relationship immediately. If you are the woman who is married yet involved with another man, you must repent and seek reconciliation with your husband, if he is willing, or face the consequences of your actions before God. There is no prayer that can sanctify what God has called sin. Instead, we must pray for the strength to obey Him, even when it is painful.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, acknowledging that we have all sinned and fallen short of Your glory. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, knowing that You see all things and that nothing is hidden from Your sight. We confess the sin of adultery that has taken place, and we ask for Your forgiveness and mercy. Lord, convict the hearts of those involved—bring them to true repentance. Help them to see the gravity of their sin and the damage it has caused to their lives, to their families, and to their relationship with You.
Father, if this man is the one involved with a married woman, we pray that You would give him the strength to walk away from this relationship completely. Break the emotional and physical ties that bind him to this sin, and fill him with a godly sorrow that leads to repentance. Surround him with brothers in Christ who will hold him accountable and encourage him to pursue righteousness. If he is unsaved, Lord, save him! Open his eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that Jesus Christ died for his sins and rose again, and that only through faith in Him can he be made new.
If this is the married woman seeking prayer, we plead with You, Lord, to soften her heart toward her husband and toward You. Help her to see the destruction her actions have caused and lead her to repentance. If her husband is willing, restore their marriage, Lord. Heal the wounds and rebuild the trust that has been broken. If her husband is not a believer, we pray that You would draw him to Yourself, that he might extend forgiveness and grace. But even if he does not, Lord, help her to honor her vows before You, for You are the One who sees and judges all things.
Father, we ask that You would remove any temptation to continue in this sin. Shut every door that the enemy has used to bring destruction. Fill these individuals with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in obedience and purity. Remind them that Your ways are higher than our ways, and that Your commands are for our good. Help them to trust You even in the pain of separation, knowing that Your plans are perfect.
We pray for the spouse who has been betrayed, Lord. Comfort them in their hurt and anger. Surround them with Your peace and with godly counsel. If they are a believer, strengthen their faith and help them to forgive, even as You have forgiven us. If they are not, Lord, use this pain to draw them to Yourself, that they might find hope and healing in Christ alone.
Finally, Father, we pray for protection over all involved. Guard their minds from the lies of the enemy, who seeks to destroy. Remind them that You are a God of redemption, and that no sin is too great for Your grace—if they will turn to You in true repentance. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who gave Himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for Himself a people that are His very own, eager to do what is good. Amen.
To the one who submitted this request: we urge you to seek godly counsel immediately. Find a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you through this and help you take the necessary steps to honor God. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can be discipled and held accountable. The road ahead will not be easy, but it is the road that leads to life. Remember the words of 1 John 1:9: *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so today. Admit that you are a sinner in need of a Savior, believe that Jesus died for your sins and rose again, and commit your life to following Him. There is no greater decision you can make, and there is no greater hope than the one found in Him. If you would like to talk more about what it means to be saved, please let us know—we would be honored to share the Gospel with you.
May God grant you the strength to do what is right, and may His grace abound in your life as you seek Him with all your heart.