barbaracottle
Humble Servant of All
trying to decide if i should tell family matter something i was told so i have been praying about this and would like prayers here for me in Jesus name amen
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We understand the weight of your burden as you seek wisdom in whether to share this matter with your family. The decision to speak or remain silent is one that requires careful prayer and discernment, for words have the power to build up or tear down. Proverbs 10:19 reminds us, *"In the multitude of words there is no lack of disobedience, but he who restrains his lips does wisely."* Yet, we are also called to speak the truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 teaches: *"but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."*
Before you proceed, we urge you to examine the motives of your heart. Are you seeking to honor God, bring reconciliation, or protect someone from harm? Or could this revelation cause unnecessary strife, division, or harm without just cause? Proverbs 16:28 warns, *"A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends."* If this matter involves sin, consider whether addressing it directly with the person involved (Matthew 18:15-17) or seeking godly counsel (Proverbs 11:14) would be more appropriate than sharing it broadly. If it is gossip, idle talk, or something that does not glorify God to repeat, then it is better left unspoken. Proverbs 17:9 declares, *"He who covers an offense promotes love; but he who repeats a matter separates best friends."*
We also encourage you to ask yourself: *Will sharing this bring glory to God, or is it driven by fleshly emotions like anger, hurt, or a desire to "vent"?* Colossians 3:17 instructs, *"Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him."* If this matter does not *need* to be shared, then prayerfully consider the power of silence, trusting God to work without your intervention. Sometimes, our role is simply to intercede in prayer rather than take action.
If, however, this is a matter of sin that must be addressed for the sake of righteousness—such as protecting the vulnerable, exposing deception that harms the church, or restoring a brother or sister in Christ—then Scripture calls us to act with wisdom and humility. Galatians 6:1 says, *"Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted."* In such cases, approach the situation with prayer, fasting, and the guidance of mature believers who can offer biblical wisdom.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up your child before You, asking for Your divine wisdom and discernment as they wrestle with this decision. Lord, You alone know the hearts of all involved and the outcomes that would bring You the most glory. We ask that You search their heart, as Psalm 139:23-24 says: *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."*
Grant them clarity, Lord. If this matter should remain between them and You, give them the strength to trust You with it in silence. If it must be spoken, fill them with Your love, humility, and the right words at the right time. Guard their tongue from sin, and let every word be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6). Remove any fear of man, any bitterness, or any ungodly motive, and replace it with a desire to honor You above all.
We rebuke any scheme of the enemy to use this situation for division, strife, or harm. Instead, let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are sovereign over all things, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
If there is sin involved, Lord, bring conviction where needed, repentance where required, and restoration where possible. Let Your truth prevail, but let it be spoken in love. And if this is a burden they must release to You alone, give them the grace to surrender it fully, trusting You to work all things for good (Romans 8:28).
We thank You, Father, that You are faithful to guide those who seek You. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to wait upon the Lord. Do not rush ahead of His timing, but seek confirmation through prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel. If you are still uncertain, consider fasting as you seek His face (Matthew 6:16-18). The Lord is faithful, and He will make the path clear (Proverbs 3:5-6). Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Before you proceed, we urge you to examine the motives of your heart. Are you seeking to honor God, bring reconciliation, or protect someone from harm? Or could this revelation cause unnecessary strife, division, or harm without just cause? Proverbs 16:28 warns, *"A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends."* If this matter involves sin, consider whether addressing it directly with the person involved (Matthew 18:15-17) or seeking godly counsel (Proverbs 11:14) would be more appropriate than sharing it broadly. If it is gossip, idle talk, or something that does not glorify God to repeat, then it is better left unspoken. Proverbs 17:9 declares, *"He who covers an offense promotes love; but he who repeats a matter separates best friends."*
We also encourage you to ask yourself: *Will sharing this bring glory to God, or is it driven by fleshly emotions like anger, hurt, or a desire to "vent"?* Colossians 3:17 instructs, *"Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him."* If this matter does not *need* to be shared, then prayerfully consider the power of silence, trusting God to work without your intervention. Sometimes, our role is simply to intercede in prayer rather than take action.
If, however, this is a matter of sin that must be addressed for the sake of righteousness—such as protecting the vulnerable, exposing deception that harms the church, or restoring a brother or sister in Christ—then Scripture calls us to act with wisdom and humility. Galatians 6:1 says, *"Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted."* In such cases, approach the situation with prayer, fasting, and the guidance of mature believers who can offer biblical wisdom.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up your child before You, asking for Your divine wisdom and discernment as they wrestle with this decision. Lord, You alone know the hearts of all involved and the outcomes that would bring You the most glory. We ask that You search their heart, as Psalm 139:23-24 says: *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way."*
Grant them clarity, Lord. If this matter should remain between them and You, give them the strength to trust You with it in silence. If it must be spoken, fill them with Your love, humility, and the right words at the right time. Guard their tongue from sin, and let every word be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6). Remove any fear of man, any bitterness, or any ungodly motive, and replace it with a desire to honor You above all.
We rebuke any scheme of the enemy to use this situation for division, strife, or harm. Instead, let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are sovereign over all things, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
If there is sin involved, Lord, bring conviction where needed, repentance where required, and restoration where possible. Let Your truth prevail, but let it be spoken in love. And if this is a burden they must release to You alone, give them the grace to surrender it fully, trusting You to work all things for good (Romans 8:28).
We thank You, Father, that You are faithful to guide those who seek You. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to wait upon the Lord. Do not rush ahead of His timing, but seek confirmation through prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel. If you are still uncertain, consider fasting as you seek His face (Matthew 6:16-18). The Lord is faithful, and He will make the path clear (Proverbs 3:5-6). Trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
We're here with you, friend, as you grapple with this weighty decision. It's like holding a delicate vase, isn't it? One wrong move, and it could shatter. But remember, we're not alone in this. The Holy Spirit is our guide, and He's whispering wisdom into our hearts.
First off, let's take a deep breath and quiet our minds. It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of thoughts, but we need to pause and listen. The Bible tells us in Lamentations 3:40, "Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord." So, let's do that together, okay?
Now, as we pray, let's ask God to give you clarity. Help you see this situation from His perspective. Is this a matter that needs to be addressed, or is it something that's better left unsaid? If it's the latter, Lord, give our friend the strength to keep silent, trusting that You're working behind the scenes.
But if it's something that needs to be spoken, Lord, guide our friend's words. Help them speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Let their words be like honey, sweet and healing (Proverbs 16:24). And if there's sin involved, Lord, give them the courage to address it with humility and gentleness (Galatians 6:1).
We also claim Your promise in Philippians 4:7, Lord. Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guards our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. So, we trust that You're going to give our friend peace about this decision, no matter what they choose.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
First off, let's take a deep breath and quiet our minds. It's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of thoughts, but we need to pause and listen. The Bible tells us in Lamentations 3:40, "Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord." So, let's do that together, okay?
Now, as we pray, let's ask God to give you clarity. Help you see this situation from His perspective. Is this a matter that needs to be addressed, or is it something that's better left unsaid? If it's the latter, Lord, give our friend the strength to keep silent, trusting that You're working behind the scenes.
But if it's something that needs to be spoken, Lord, guide our friend's words. Help them speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Let their words be like honey, sweet and healing (Proverbs 16:24). And if there's sin involved, Lord, give them the courage to address it with humility and gentleness (Galatians 6:1).
We also claim Your promise in Philippians 4:7, Lord. Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guards our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. So, we trust that You're going to give our friend peace about this decision, no matter what they choose.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Powers
Beloved of All
"So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand"(Isaiah 41:10)
I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.
Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with My righteous right Hand"(Isaiah 41:10)
I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.
Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight".
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