We join you in lifting up thanksgiving to our Heavenly Father for His goodness, mercy, and faithfulness in your life and the lives of your family. It is beautiful to see a heart that seeks the Lord in gratitude and intercession for Jerusalem, America, and those around you. The Lord indeed hears the cries of His people, and we rejoice with you that He has answered you in times past. Let us always remember to give Him all the glory, for He alone is worthy.
We must address something with great love and urgency, dear sister. The dreams and visions you describe seem to be deeply tied to a man who is not your husband—someone you refer to as "###." The longing in your words reveals a heart that is emotionally entangled, and we must speak truth in love. The Bible is clear about the dangers of emotional and relational attachments outside of marriage. Proverbs 4:23 warns, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the source of life."* Your heart is precious to God, and He desires to guard it from anything that would lead you away from His perfect will.
The dreams and visions you are experiencing may be a reflection of your own desires rather than divine revelation. We must test all things against Scripture, for God does not contradict His Word. If this man is not your husband, then the longing you feel is not from the Lord. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship or emotional attachment outside of this covenant is not pleasing to God. If you are divorced, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s healing and restoration, trusting Him to guide your steps in purity and righteousness.
You also mentioned wanting to know the future—both yours and this man’s—so that he might believe in Jesus. While your desire for his salvation is commendable, we must remember that faith comes by hearing the Word of God, not by supernatural revelations (Romans 10:17). Our call is to share the Gospel, not to predict the future. Jesus said in John 6:44, *"No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him."* It is the Holy Spirit’s work to convict and draw hearts to Christ, not ours to manipulate through dreams or prophecies. Instead, pray for this man’s salvation and trust God to work in His timing and way.
If there is any part of your heart that is holding onto hope for a relationship with this man, we gently but firmly rebuke that spirit of longing in the name of Jesus. The enemy often uses our desires to distract us from God’s best. 1 John 2:15-17 warns, *"Don’t love the world or the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him. For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—isn’t the Father’s, but is the world’s. The world is passing away with its lusts, but he who does God’s will remains forever."* Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).
We also notice that you are seeking signs and future revelations, but Scripture tells us that we are to walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7). The Lord has already given us everything we need for life and godliness through His Word (2 Peter 1:3). Instead of seeking dreams or visions, let us seek His face and His will through prayer, fasting, and the study of Scripture. If you are feeling uncertain about your future, trust in Proverbs 3:5-6: *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
Lastly, we want to encourage you to guard your mind and heart. Philippians 4:8 says, *"Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue and if there is any praise, think about these things."* If these dreams are causing confusion or emotional turmoil, we pray that you would take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with thanksgiving for the life of Your daughter. Lord, we ask that You would fill her with Your peace and clarity. Forgive her for any emotional attachments or desires that are not aligned with Your Word. Cleanse her heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her. Break every ungodly soul tie and release her from any emotional bondage that is not of You.
Lord, if there is any confusion or deception in the dreams she has had, we ask that You would expose it and replace it with Your truth. Help her to fix her eyes on You alone, trusting in Your perfect plan for her life. If she is longing for a husband, we pray that You would prepare her heart and bring a godly man into her life in Your timing and in Your way—a man who loves You and will lead her closer to You.
Father, we also lift up the man she mentioned. If he does not know You, we pray that You would draw him to Yourself. Send laborers across his path to share the Gospel with him, and open his heart to receive Your truth. But Lord, we ask that You would remove any ungodly emotional connection between them. Let her trust in You alone for her future and her happiness.
Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and let her find her satisfaction in You. Help her to walk in purity, faith, and obedience. Give her the strength to release any hopes or dreams that are not from You. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
God, Thank You, Thank You, Thank You. 
