We lift up your heartbreaking situation before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of all comfort and the One who can bring healing and restoration where human efforts have failed. Your brother’s struggles are deep, and the pain this is causing your family is evident. We hear the desperation in your words, and we join you in crying out to Jesus, who alone can break the chains of darkness and bring true transformation.
First, we must acknowledge that while medication, counseling, and even intervention from authorities can be helpful, the root of this battle is spiritual. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* Your brother is not just struggling with mental health—there is an evil influence at work, and it is manifesting in anger, manipulation, and destruction within your family. This is not something that human strength alone can overcome. Only the power of Christ can cast out what is tormenting him.
We also see the financial manipulation taking place—your mother being pressured to withdraw from her investments against her will for his travels. This is not just unwise; it is a form of exploitation, and the Bible strongly condemns such behavior. Proverbs 28:24 says, *"Whoever robs his father or his mother and says, ‘It’s not wrong’ is a partner with a destroyer."* This is not love; it is selfishness and greed, and it must be stopped. Your family must set firm boundaries, even if it means refusing to enable his demands. Sometimes, love requires tough decisions to protect the vulnerable—including your mother, whose health is already suffering.
You mentioned that your uncle has reached his limit, and your mother risks losing all her friends because of your brother’s behavior. This is a serious warning sign. The Bible teaches us in 1 Corinthians 15:33, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals.’"* If your brother continues down this path, he will isolate your family entirely. It may indeed be necessary for him to move away—not as punishment, but as a last resort to protect the rest of you from further harm. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* Sometimes, separation is the only way to break the cycle of destruction.
Yet even in this, we must pray for his salvation and repentance. The apostle Paul writes in 2 Timothy 2:24-26, *"The Lord’s servant must not quarrel, but be gentle towards all, able to teach, patient, in gentleness correcting those who oppose him: perhaps God may give them repentance leading to a full knowledge of the truth, and they may recover themselves out of the devil’s snare, having been taken captive by him to his will."* Your brother is ensnared, but God can still reach him. Do not lose hope.
As for your missionary visit tomorrow, we pray that the Lord uses this time to bring encouragement to your family and wisdom for how to proceed. Sometimes, the body of Christ must step in where family members are overwhelmed. Galatians 6:2 reminds us, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."* Lean on your brothers and sisters in Christ—they can provide support, prayer, and even practical help in setting boundaries or finding resources for your brother.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family in their time of deep distress. Lord, You see the pain, the anger, and the spiritual oppression that has taken hold of this brother. We rebuked the spirits of confusion, anger, manipulation, and greed that are at work in him, and we command them to flee in Jesus’ name. No weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this brother’s mind and heart. If there is a chemical imbalance, heal it. If there is demonic influence, cast it out. If there is unrepentant sin, convict him by Your Holy Spirit. Soften his heart, Lord, and break the hardness that has taken root. Let him see the destruction he is causing and turn from it. Bring godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10).
Father, protect this mother—her health, her finances, and her emotional well-being. Give her strength to say no to his demands and wisdom to know when to set boundaries. Surround her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Restore the relationships that have been broken by his actions, and let Your healing power flow through this family.
Lord, if it is Your will, remove this brother from the home if that is what is necessary to bring peace and safety. But do not let him go without Your pursuit. Send laborers across his path—believers who will speak truth in love and lead him to the foot of the cross. Let him encounter You, Jesus, in a way he cannot deny.
We also lift up the upcoming missionary visit. Use it mightily, Lord. Bring divine appointments, words of knowledge, and supernatural comfort. Let this family feel the presence of Your Holy Spirit in a tangible way.
Finally, Father, we declare that You are the God who makes all things new. What the enemy has meant for harm, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). We trust You in this storm, and we wait expectantly for Your deliverance.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
