We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this painful and deeply troubling situation to the One who is our Healer, our Peace, and our Strong Tower. It is clear that your brother is suffering greatly under the weight of mental and emotional torment, and the enemy has sought to use this to bring chaos, fear, and exhaustion into your home. We also see the immense strain this has placed on your mother, who is being pressured and verbally abused, as well as the toll it is taking on you as you seek to support them both. This is not the will of God for your family, and we stand with you in rebuking the spirits of confusion, oppression, and manipulation that are at work here.
First, we must acknowledge that the Lord sees the suffering of your brother, your mother, and you. He is not distant from this pain, and His heart is moved with compassion. The Bible tells us in **Psalm 34:18**, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Yet we must also recognize that while your brother’s condition may be influenced by mental illness, his actions—particularly his verbal aggression, manipulation, and refusal to respect your mother’s boundaries—are sinful and must be addressed. **Ephesians 4:29** commands us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* His behavior is not only harmful but dishonors God and the commandment to *"honor your father and mother"* (**Exodus 20:12**). This is not love; it is control, and it must be rebuked in the name of Jesus.
We also see that your mother is being worn down by fear and confusion, refusing help out of what may be shame, exhaustion, or even a misplaced sense of loyalty. But **Proverbs 11:14** tells us, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."* Isolation is not the answer—she needs godly support, whether from trusted believers, a pastor, or professional counselors who can help her navigate this situation with wisdom and strength. The enemy wants her to remain in bondage to fear, but **2 Timothy 1:7** reminds us that *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* She must be encouraged to seek help, not out of weakness, but out of strength in Christ.
As for you, we see your weariness, and we urge you to cast this burden upon the Lord, for He cares for you (**1 Peter 5:7**). You cannot carry this alone, and it is not your responsibility to "fix" your brother or your mother. Your role is to pray, to speak truth in love, and to seek wisdom from God on how to act—whether that means setting boundaries, seeking outside intervention, or simply trusting Him to move in ways you cannot see. **Isaiah 41:10** says, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."*
Now, let us pray with authority and faith:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family in their time of deep distress. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in the life of this brother who is tormented by mental and emotional instability. We rebuked the spirits of confusion, oppression, fear, and manipulation that have taken hold of his mind, and we command them to flee in the name of Jesus. **2 Corinthians 10:4-5** tells us that *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."* Lord, we ask that You break every stronghold in his mind, that You would quiet the obsessive thoughts, stabilize his emotions, and bring clarity where there is chaos.
Father, we pray for complete healing—whether through supernatural intervention or through the right medical and professional help. Guide this family to the resources they need, and soften your brother’s heart to receive treatment and counseling. Convict him of the sin in his verbal abuse and manipulation, and lead him to repentance. May he come to understand that his words and actions are grieving the Holy Spirit, and may he seek forgiveness from You and from those he has hurt.
Lord, we lift up this dear mother who is being worn down by fear and exhaustion. Surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**), and give her the courage to seek help. Remove the spirit of fear that has kept her in bondage, and replace it with Your perfect love (**1 John 4:18**). Provide her with wise counselors, godly friends, or professionals who can support her in making decisions that honor You and protect her well-being. Give her strength to set boundaries where necessary, and wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent.
Father, we also lift up this faithful sibling who is carrying so much. Renew their strength, Lord, and remind them that they do not have to bear this alone. Fill them with Your peace and assurance that You are working, even when they cannot see it. Give them discernment to know how to support their family while also protecting their own heart and mind.
Lord, we ask for Your supernatural peace to fill this home. Where there has been shouting, bring quiet. Where there has been confusion, bring clarity. Where there has been fear, bring faith. We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**), and that You, Lord, will restore what the locusts have eaten (**Joel 2:25**).
Finally, Father, we pray that through this trial, each member of this family would draw closer to You. May they seek Your face, trust in Your sovereignty, and find their hope in Christ alone. If there is any unconfessed sin, any bitterness, or any unforgiveness, we ask that You would reveal it and bring repentance. Unify this family in Your love, and let Your will be done in their lives.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power to heal, to restore, and to redeem. May Your name be glorified in this situation, and may this family experience the depth of Your love and mercy. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
We will continue to stand with you in prayer, believing that God is at work even now. Do not lose heart, for *"the Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; and He knows those who take refuge in Him"* (**Nahum 1:7**). Keep seeking Him, keep speaking truth in love, and trust that He will lead you through this storm. If there are specific ways we can pray further—such as for open doors to professional help, for your mother’s safety, or for your own strength—let us know. You are not alone in this.