We hear your heart, and we stand with you in this spiritual battle, lifting you both before the throne of grace. The pain of separation and the longing for reunion is deeply felt, especially when you believe this is the one God has ordained for you. We recognize the enemy’s schemes to divide, discourage, and distort what God has joined together in spirit, and we take authority over those lies in the mighty name of Jesus.
First, we must address the foundation of your relationship. You mention that you and she have begun growing closer to God together, and that is a beautiful thing. However, we must gently but firmly remind you both that God’s design for marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman, established before Him as a sacred union (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are not yet married, we encourage you to prayerfully consider whether your relationship is moving toward that holy commitment. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, and any physical intimacy outside of marriage is not aligned with God’s Word (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If there has been any ungodly attachment or impurity, we urge you to repent and seek the Lord’s cleansing, for the enemy thrives in darkness.
You describe her as your "soulmate," but we must caution against this language, as it can sometimes elevate human relationships above our relationship with Christ. While it is a blessing to find a godly spouse, our ultimate fulfillment and identity are found in Jesus alone (Colossians 2:10). We pray that you both would seek Him first, trusting that He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). The enemy may be using her anxiety and emotional struggles to create division, but God can use even this trial to refine your faith and draw you both closer to Him.
We rebuke the spirit of fear, anxiety, and confusion that has taken hold of her heart. The Word tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that her emotions will no longer rule her but will be submitted to the peace of Christ (Philippians 4:6-7). We also rebuke any lies from the enemy that seek to convince her that separation is the answer. The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10).
We pray for her protection and deliverance from the overwhelming emotions that have caused her to flee in the past. Father, we ask that You would calm her heart and mind, replacing her anxiety with Your perfect peace. Help her to cast all her cares upon You, knowing that You care for her (1 Peter 5:7). Surround her with Your presence, Lord, and let her feel Your love in a tangible way. Break any strongholds of fear or past wounds that may be contributing to her emotional struggles. We declare that she is not defined by her sensitivity or her struggles but by who You say she is—a beloved daughter of the Most High God (1 John 3:1).
For you, we pray for patience, wisdom, and unwavering faith. It is clear that your heart is fully committed to her and to the Lord, but we encourage you to continue seeking God’s will above your own desires. The enemy may try to tempt you with impatience or discouragement, but we declare that your trust in God will not waver (Psalm 56:3-4). We pray that you would be a source of strength and stability for her, reflecting the love of Christ in every word and action. Let your love for her be rooted in Christ’s love for the church (Ephesians 5:25), and may your relationship be a testimony to His grace and redemption.
We also lift up the spiritual warfare you are facing. The enemy attacked immediately after you both took a step closer to God, and that is no coincidence. We take authority over every demonic assignment against your relationship in the name of Jesus. Every spirit of division, confusion, and strife is bound and cast out (Mark 16:17). We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that the gates of hell will not prevail against the work God is doing in your lives (Matthew 16:18). We pray for a hedge of protection around you both, that no fiery dart of the enemy would penetrate your hearts or minds (Ephesians 6:16).
Father, we ask that You would soften her heart and draw her back to You and to him. Let her remember the love, joy, and peace she has found in this relationship, and let her see it as a gift from You. Remove any pride, fear, or doubt that may be keeping her from returning. We pray that she would be convicted by Your Holy Spirit to seek reconciliation, not out of obligation, but out of a desire to honor You and the covenant You have placed on her heart. Let her steps be ordered by You, Lord, and let her return be swift and sure (Psalm 37:23).
We also pray for wisdom for both of you moving forward. If this is indeed the person God has for you, we ask that He would confirm it in both of your hearts. Let there be no doubt, no wavering, but a firm assurance that this is His will (James 1:6-8). If there are areas in your relationship that need to be surrendered to God, we pray that He would reveal them and give you the grace to walk in obedience. May your relationship be built on the solid foundation of Christ, where love, trust, and mutual submission abound (Ephesians 5:21-33).
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. It is easy to become consumed with the desire for reunion, but we must remember that our ultimate hope is in Him. He is the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2), and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Trust in His timing, for it is perfect. Even in this season of waiting, He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your will and Your way in this situation. We ask that You would reunite them according to Your perfect plan. Heal their hearts, restore their relationship, and let Your glory be revealed through their love for one another. We declare that this is not the end of their story but a testimony of Your faithfulness and redemption. Strengthen their faith, deepen their love for You, and let them walk in the fullness of what You have for them. We ask all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to You. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
