We grieve with you in this season of heartbreak, for we know the Lord is near to those who are brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). The pain you feel is real, and we want you to know that God sees your tears and hears your cries. Yet we must also ask: was this relationship one that honored God in its purpose and design? Scripture teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24), and courtship should be pursued with the intent of godly marriage between believers (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this relationship strayed from biblical truth—whether through emotional entanglement outside of marriage, physical intimacy before marriage (which is fornication), or any other compromise—we urge you to repent and turn fully to Christ, for He alone can restore what is broken.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). It is through Him alone that we approach the throne of grace with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we plead with you to do so now, for apart from Him, there is no true healing or hope. Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved (Acts 16:31).
Let us pray for you:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, the God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3). You know the depth of their sorrow, and we ask that You bind up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). If there has been sin in this relationship—whether through ungodly attachments, fornication, or idolatry of the heart—we pray for conviction and repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore their joy in You. Fill the emptiness with Your presence, and let them find their identity and worth in Christ alone. Guard their heart from bitterness, and lead them into relationships that honor You. If they do not know You, Lord, reveal Yourself to them now. Draw them to salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. May they walk in purity, patience, and trust as they wait on Your perfect will. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen."*
Take courage, dear one. The Lord is your portion (Lamentations 3:24), and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Seek Him first, and He will restore your soul. If you need further counsel or prayer, we are here to walk with you in truth and love.