Prayers needed
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We understand your heart’s cry for connection and validation, and we want to lift you up in truth and love. First, we must gently but firmly address something critical: your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. Scripture is clear that we are to pray in Jesus’ name, for He is our Mediator and the only way to the Father. *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). Without invoking His name, our prayers lack the authority and alignment with God’s will that He commands. We also notice you did not ask for God’s will to be done in this situation, which is vital. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your Kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10, WEB). Our desires must submit to His perfect plan, even when it’s difficult.
Now, let us speak to the deeper issue here. Your request reveals a longing for this person’s attention, affirmation, and relationship, but we must ask: Is this pursuit aligned with God’s design for relationships? Scripture warns us not to place our hope, identity, or worth in any human being—especially someone who is dismissive or distant. *"Don’t set your affections on the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him"* (1 John 2:15, WEB). When we fixate on someone who does not reciprocate godly love, we risk idolatry, placing that person above God in our hearts. This is dangerous territory, and we urge you to examine whether this pursuit is honoring to the Lord.
Additionally, we do not see any mention of marriage or courtship with the intent of marriage in your request. If this person is not your spouse, then pursuing a deep emotional or physical connection outside of a biblical, covenantal marriage is not God’s will. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). Even emotional intimacy without the commitment of marriage can lead to sin and heartache. If this person is not a believer or is not pursuing you in a way that honors Christ, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
We also sense a deep wound in your heart—a fear of being unworthy or unseen. But beloved, your value is not determined by this person’s response to you. You are *fearfully and wonderfully made* by God (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and your identity is found in Christ alone. If this man is ignoring you, it may be God’s protection over you. Not every desire we have is from the Lord, and sometimes His answer is *"no"* or *"wait"* for our own good. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let us pray for you now, asking the Lord to realign your heart with His, to heal any brokenness, and to guide you into relationships that honor Him—whether that means reconciliation with this person *in a godly way* or redirecting your affections entirely.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting and longing for connection. Lord, we ask that You forgive her for any way she has sought fulfillment outside of You, whether in this person’s attention or in her own desires above Your will. Cleanse her heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her (Psalm 51:10).
Father, if this man is the one You have for her—and *only* if he is a believer who will lead her closer to You—then we pray You soften his heart. But Lord, if this is not Your will, we ask that You *close this door completely* and redirect her affections to You first and foremost. Protect her from emotional bondage, from sin, and from placing her hope in anyone but You.
Heal the wounds in her heart that make her feel unseen or unworthy. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no man’s approval can compare to Your love. Give her the strength to surrender this situation to You, trusting that Your plans for her are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
If she has entertained any sinful thoughts, emotions, or actions in this pursuit, convict her by Your Holy Spirit and lead her to repentance. Teach her to wait on You, to seek Your Kingdom first, and to find her satisfaction in You alone.
We rebuke any spirit of rejection, fear, or idolatry that may be at work here, and we declare that her heart will be guarded by Your truth. Surround her with godly community, and if marriage is Your will for her, prepare a man after Your own heart who will cherish her as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25).
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, particularly in Psalms and the Gospels, to realign your heart with His. Seek His face in prayer, not just for this situation but for *Him*—for His presence is what truly satisfies. If you are not already in a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can be discipled and surrounded by wise counsel. And if this man is not pursuing you in a way that honors God, we lovingly but firmly advise you to release him to the Lord and trust that God’s plan for you is far greater than you can imagine.
Would you like us to pray for you in any other areas of your life? We are here to stand with you in truth and love.
Now, let us speak to the deeper issue here. Your request reveals a longing for this person’s attention, affirmation, and relationship, but we must ask: Is this pursuit aligned with God’s design for relationships? Scripture warns us not to place our hope, identity, or worth in any human being—especially someone who is dismissive or distant. *"Don’t set your affections on the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him"* (1 John 2:15, WEB). When we fixate on someone who does not reciprocate godly love, we risk idolatry, placing that person above God in our hearts. This is dangerous territory, and we urge you to examine whether this pursuit is honoring to the Lord.
Additionally, we do not see any mention of marriage or courtship with the intent of marriage in your request. If this person is not your spouse, then pursuing a deep emotional or physical connection outside of a biblical, covenantal marriage is not God’s will. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). Even emotional intimacy without the commitment of marriage can lead to sin and heartache. If this person is not a believer or is not pursuing you in a way that honors Christ, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
We also sense a deep wound in your heart—a fear of being unworthy or unseen. But beloved, your value is not determined by this person’s response to you. You are *fearfully and wonderfully made* by God (Psalm 139:14, WEB), and your identity is found in Christ alone. If this man is ignoring you, it may be God’s protection over you. Not every desire we have is from the Lord, and sometimes His answer is *"no"* or *"wait"* for our own good. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let us pray for you now, asking the Lord to realign your heart with His, to heal any brokenness, and to guide you into relationships that honor Him—whether that means reconciliation with this person *in a godly way* or redirecting your affections entirely.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting and longing for connection. Lord, we ask that You forgive her for any way she has sought fulfillment outside of You, whether in this person’s attention or in her own desires above Your will. Cleanse her heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her (Psalm 51:10).
Father, if this man is the one You have for her—and *only* if he is a believer who will lead her closer to You—then we pray You soften his heart. But Lord, if this is not Your will, we ask that You *close this door completely* and redirect her affections to You first and foremost. Protect her from emotional bondage, from sin, and from placing her hope in anyone but You.
Heal the wounds in her heart that make her feel unseen or unworthy. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no man’s approval can compare to Your love. Give her the strength to surrender this situation to You, trusting that Your plans for her are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
If she has entertained any sinful thoughts, emotions, or actions in this pursuit, convict her by Your Holy Spirit and lead her to repentance. Teach her to wait on You, to seek Your Kingdom first, and to find her satisfaction in You alone.
We rebuke any spirit of rejection, fear, or idolatry that may be at work here, and we declare that her heart will be guarded by Your truth. Surround her with godly community, and if marriage is Your will for her, prepare a man after Your own heart who will cherish her as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25).
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
---
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, particularly in Psalms and the Gospels, to realign your heart with His. Seek His face in prayer, not just for this situation but for *Him*—for His presence is what truly satisfies. If you are not already in a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can be discipled and surrounded by wise counsel. And if this man is not pursuing you in a way that honors God, we lovingly but firmly advise you to release him to the Lord and trust that God’s plan for you is far greater than you can imagine.
Would you like us to pray for you in any other areas of your life? We are here to stand with you in truth and love.
We hear your heart's cry, dear one, and we want to wrap our arms around you in love. We understand the longing for connection and the pain of feeling ignored. It's tough, and we're here for you.
First, let's make sure our hearts are aligned with Jesus'. We should always approach God in prayer through Jesus Christ, our Mediator. So, let's pray in Jesus' name, asking for God's will to be done, just as Jesus taught us. "Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10).
Now, let's talk about this situation. It's normal to want attention and affirmation, but we must ensure our pursuit is God-honoring. The Bible warns us not to set our affections on the world or any human being. Instead, our hope and identity should be found in Christ alone (1 John 2:15-17).
If this person is not your spouse, then pursuing a deep emotional or physical connection outside of marriage is not God's will. Even emotional intimacy without the commitment of marriage can lead to sin and heartache. And if this person is not a believer or is not pursuing you in a way that honors Christ, we should not be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We also sense a deep wound in your heart - a fear of being unworthy or unseen. But remember, your value is not determined by this person's response to you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:14), and your identity is found in Christ alone. If this man is ignoring you, it may be God's protection over you. Not every desire we have is from the Lord, and sometimes His answer is "no" or "wait" for our own good (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray for you now, asking the Lord to realign your heart with His, to heal any brokenness, and to guide you into relationships that honor Him. Whether that means reconciliation with this person in a godly way or redirecting your affections entirely, we trust that God knows what's best for you.
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting and longing for connection... [Continue in prayer]
First, let's make sure our hearts are aligned with Jesus'. We should always approach God in prayer through Jesus Christ, our Mediator. So, let's pray in Jesus' name, asking for God's will to be done, just as Jesus taught us. "Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10).
Now, let's talk about this situation. It's normal to want attention and affirmation, but we must ensure our pursuit is God-honoring. The Bible warns us not to set our affections on the world or any human being. Instead, our hope and identity should be found in Christ alone (1 John 2:15-17).
If this person is not your spouse, then pursuing a deep emotional or physical connection outside of marriage is not God's will. Even emotional intimacy without the commitment of marriage can lead to sin and heartache. And if this person is not a believer or is not pursuing you in a way that honors Christ, we should not be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We also sense a deep wound in your heart - a fear of being unworthy or unseen. But remember, your value is not determined by this person's response to you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:14), and your identity is found in Christ alone. If this man is ignoring you, it may be God's protection over you. Not every desire we have is from the Lord, and sometimes His answer is "no" or "wait" for our own good (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Let's pray for you now, asking the Lord to realign your heart with His, to heal any brokenness, and to guide you into relationships that honor Him. Whether that means reconciliation with this person in a godly way or redirecting your affections entirely, we trust that God knows what's best for you.
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting and longing for connection... [Continue in prayer]
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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