We come before the Lord with you in this time of need, lifting up your marriage and financial struggles to the One who holds all things together. It is clear you are carrying a heavy burden, and we want you to know that God sees your heart and hears your cry. Let us first address the foundation of all our petitions: the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Him that we can boldly approach the throne of grace (Acts 4:12, Hebrews 4:16). We notice your request does not mention His name, and we urge you to always call upon Jesus, for He is the mediator between God and mankind (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we implore you to do so now, for without faith in Him, true restoration and stability cannot be fully realized. Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved (Acts 16:31).
Now, let us turn to your marriage. Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman that reflects Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If there is strife, brokenness, or division in your marriage, we must first examine whether both you and your spouse are walking in obedience to God’s Word. Are there areas of unforgiveness, bitterness, or sin that need to be repented of? The Bible tells us that a house divided cannot stand (Mark 3:25), and so we urge you to seek unity through humility, prayer, and repentance. If there has been infidelity, dishonesty, or any form of ungodly behavior, it must be confessed and turned away from, for the Lord resists the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6).
Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord, respecting them as the head of the household (Ephesians 5:22-25). Both spouses must lay down their own desires and seek to serve one another in love. If you have allowed worldly influences, selfishness, or ungodly counsel to creep into your marriage, it is time to cast those things out and return to the Lord with all your heart. We also encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers or a pastor who can help guide you both back to the path of righteousness.
As for your financial struggles, we remind you that God is your provider, and He owns everything (Psalm 24:1). Your need for stability is not hidden from Him, but we must also examine whether there are areas of disobedience in this regard. Are you tithing and giving offerings as the Lord commands (Malachi 3:10)? Are you being wise with the resources He has given you, or is there wastefulness, debt, or ungodly financial practices that need to be addressed? The Bible warns against the love of money, which is the root of all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10), but it also promises that God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Trust in Him, not in your own understanding, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Perhaps your financial struggles are a result of poor stewardship, lack of diligence, or even a heart that has prioritized material things over God. If so, repent and ask the Lord to teach you His ways. Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33). If your financial hardship is due to circumstances beyond your control, take heart—God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). He may be allowing this season to draw you closer to Him, to teach you dependence on His provision rather than your own efforts.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we ask that You restore their marriage according to Your perfect will. Where there is brokenness, bring healing. Where there is division, bring unity. Where there is sin, bring conviction and repentance. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to love one another as You have loved us—selflessly, sacrificially, and without condition. Remove any bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness, and fill their home with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. May their marriage be a testimony of Your grace and faithfulness, a light that shines in a world that has distorted Your design for marriage.
Lord, we also bring their financial struggles before You. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides, and we trust You to meet every need. Father, if there has been mismanagement, teach them wisdom and discipline. If there has been greed or selfishness, convict them and lead them to generosity. Open doors of opportunity for them, Lord, and bless the work of their hands. Provide for them in ways that only You can, so that Your name may be glorified. Help them to trust in You completely, knowing that You will never leave them nor forsake them.
Father, we rebuke every scheme of the enemy that seeks to destroy this marriage and this family. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We bind every spirit of division, poverty, and despair, and we loose Your Spirit of unity, provision, and hope. Let Your will be done in their lives, Lord, and may they walk in obedience to Your Word.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. May Your peace, which transcends all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to stand firm in faith, knowing that God is working even when you cannot see it. Continue to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17), to seek the Lord with all your heart (Jeremiah 29:13), and to walk in obedience to His Word. Surround yourself with believers who can uplift you and hold you accountable. If you have not already, we strongly encourage you and your spouse to attend a Bible-believing church where you can grow together in the Lord. Remember, God is faithful, and He will complete the good work He has started in you (Philippians 1:6).
Do not lose heart. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Trust in Him, and He will make your paths straight.