We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we want you to know that your cries have not gone unnoticed by the Lord. It is heartbreaking to feel as though God is distant or even cruel, especially when your heart is set on caring for your children, honoring your responsibilities, and helping others. But we must gently correct the idea that God is cruel—He is not. The Bible tells us, *"The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness"* (Psalm 103:8). His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and though we may not understand His timing or His methods, He is always working for our good (Romans 8:28).
You mentioned that you want to take care of your children and pay your debts—these are noble and godly desires. The Lord sees your heart and your struggles, and He does not turn away from those who seek Him in truth. However, we must also address the bitterness in your words toward God. When we feel oppressed or overlooked, it is easy to question His goodness, but Scripture warns us, *"Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights"* (James 1:16-17). Even in hardship, God is not against you. He may be refining you, teaching you patience, or preparing you for something greater.
We also want to gently remind you that salvation and access to God come only through Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we encourage you to do so. Jesus said, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). He is the only way to true peace and reconciliation with God.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who feels abandoned and oppressed. Lord, You see their struggles—their desire to provide for their children, to pay their debts, and to help others. We ask that You would meet them in their pain and reveal Yourself to them in a tangible way. Soften their heart, Lord, and help them to trust in Your goodness even when life feels unfair. Remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and that You have plans for their welfare, not for harm (Jeremiah 29:11).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and resentment that may be taking root in their heart. Replace it with Your peace and hope. Give them wisdom to navigate their challenges and strength to persevere. Help them to see that You are working all things together for their good, even when it doesn’t feel like it. And if they have not yet placed their faith in Jesus Christ, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself, that they may know the forgiveness and freedom that comes only through Him.
Lord, we also pray for their children—that You would protect them, provide for them, and surround them with Your love. Give our brother/sister the resources and opportunities they need to fulfill their responsibilities. Break every chain of oppression in their life, and let them experience Your victory and provision.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who hears our cries and intercedes for us. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises, even when circumstances seem bleak. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep serving others with a humble heart. The Lord sees your efforts, and He will not forget your labor of love (Hebrews 6:10). If you feel overwhelmed, reach out to fellow believers who can pray with you and support you. You are not alone in this journey. God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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