We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep longing for restoration, healing, and unity within your family. Your heart’s cry for reconciliation, protection, and godly love is one that aligns with God’s desire for families to reflect His love and holiness. Yet as we lift these requests together, we must also examine them through the lens of Scripture to ensure they honor God’s will and His design for marriage, family, and relationships.
First, we rejoice that you have surrendered this situation to God, for it is only through Christ that we can approach the throne of grace with confidence. Your prayer acknowledges His sovereignty, and that is a beautiful place to start. However, we notice that while you have surrendered to God, the name of Jesus Christ—the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to the Father—was not invoked in your prayer. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). It is through faith in Jesus Christ that we receive forgiveness, grace, and the power to live righteously. If you have not yet placed your full trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Scripture tells us, “If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved” (Romans 10:9). Without this foundation, our prayers lack the power and authority that come through Christ alone.
Now, let us address the specific requests you’ve shared, beginning with the desire for your family to be brought together. Family unity is a precious gift from God, and we pray that He would bind your family in love, peace, and mutual respect. “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to live together in unity!” (Psalm 133:1). We ask the Lord to soften hearts, heal wounds, and remove any bitterness or division that may exist. May your home be a place where God’s presence dwells richly, and may each member of your family seek Him first above all else.
For your mother, we pray for healing and strength, both physically and spiritually. The Bible assures us that God hears the prayers of the righteous (James 5:16), and we ask that He would grant her complete restoration according to His will. May she also experience the peace of God that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) as she waits on Him. We pray that her faith would be strengthened and that she would see the Lord’s faithfulness in every area of her life.
Regarding the man you mentioned, we lift him up to the Lord, asking for forgiveness and healing in his heart. The Bible tells us that if we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). We pray that he would turn to Christ in repentance and experience the transforming power of God’s grace. May his heart be renewed and his mind aligned with the truth of Scripture. However, we must also address the nature of your request concerning your relationship with him. You have asked for reconciliation, marriage, and a stronger relationship, but we must consider whether this relationship aligns with God’s design.
The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christ’s relationship with His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this man is not your husband, we urge you to examine whether your relationship with him has honored God’s standards. Have you both remained pure, or has there been sexual immorality? Scripture warns us to flee from sexual sin (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to keep the marriage bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). If there has been fornication, it is not too late to repent and seek God’s forgiveness. He is merciful and desires to restore you to a place of holiness. We encourage you to pursue a relationship that is centered on Christ, with marriage as the godly goal if that is God’s will.
If this man is not a believer, we must also consider the warning in 2 Corinthians 6:14: “Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?” A marriage built on unequal spiritual foundations will face immense challenges. We pray that if this man is not a believer, the Lord would draw him to salvation. But we also encourage you to seek a spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Christ, for a marriage rooted in Him is the only one that will truly thrive.
For your children, we pray God’s protection, provision, and blessing over their lives. May they grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man (Luke 2:52). We ask that the Lord would surround them with godly influences and guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. May they come to know Him as their Savior at a young age and walk in His ways all their days. We also pray that you would be equipped to raise them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4), teaching them His Word and modeling a life of faith before them.
You have also asked for protection from the devil, and we stand with you in this. The Bible reminds us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). We pray that God would clothe you and your family in the full armor of God—truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God—so that you may stand firm against every scheme of the enemy. May the blood of Jesus cover your family and keep you from all harm.
Finally, we address your desire for a miracle in this relationship. While we understand your longing for reconciliation and marriage, we must prioritize God’s will above our own desires. Jesus taught us to pray, “Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). Sometimes, God’s will involves restoration, but other times, it involves redirection. We pray that the Lord would make His will clear to you and give you the strength to obey, even if it is difficult. If this relationship is not honoring to Him, we ask that He would close that door and open the right one—a door that leads to a godly, Christ-centered marriage.
We also notice that you mentioned children in the context of this relationship. If these are children you share with this man, we pray for their well-being and that God would use this situation for their ultimate good. However, if you are hoping to reunite for the sake of the children alone, we encourage you to seek God’s wisdom above all. Children thrive best in a home where both parents are committed to Christ and to each other in a biblical marriage. If that is not the case, it is better to trust God’s plan for their lives rather than force a reconciliation that may not be His will.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who hears our prayers and cares deeply for each of us. Lord, we lift up this dear sister and her family to You, asking for Your divine intervention in every area of their lives.
First, we pray for salvation and a deep, abiding faith in Jesus Christ for every member of this family. If there is anyone who has not yet surrendered their life to You, Lord, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself. Open their eyes to the truth of the gospel and soften their hearts to receive Your love and forgiveness. May they confess with their mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in their hearts that You raised Him from the dead.
Father, we ask for healing for this mother. Touch her body, mind, and spirit, and restore her to full health according to Your will. May she experience Your peace and see Your faithfulness in every area of her life. Grant her the desires of her heart as she delights in You (Psalm 37:4).
Lord, we lift up the man mentioned in this prayer. We ask for forgiveness and healing in his heart. If he has strayed from You, draw him back with cords of love. If he does not know You, reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way. May he turn to You in repentance and experience the transformation that only You can bring. Father, if this relationship is not honoring to You, we ask that You would make that clear and give this sister the strength to walk away in obedience. But if it is Your will for them to be reconciled, we pray that You would restore what has been broken and build something beautiful for Your glory.
We pray for these children, Lord. Protect them, provide for them, and lead them in Your truth. May they grow up to love You with all their hearts and serve You with their lives. Surround them with godly influences and keep them from the snares of the enemy.
Father, we ask for unity in this family. Remove any bitterness, unforgiveness, or division, and replace it with Your love and peace. Bind them together in a way that reflects Your heart for families. Protect them from the schemes of the devil, and cover them with the blood of Jesus. May they be a light in this world, pointing others to You.
Lord, we pray for a miracle in this situation, but above all, we pray for Your will to be done. Give this sister wisdom, discernment, and the courage to follow You, even if it is difficult. If this relationship is not Your best for her, we ask that You would close that door and open the right one—a door that leads to a godly, Christ-centered marriage. Prepare her heart for the spouse You have for her, if that is Your plan.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would strengthen her faith and fill her with Your peace as she waits on You. Remind her that You are working all things together for her good and Your glory (Romans 8:28). May she trust in You with all her heart and lean not on her own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
