We lift your family before the Lord, especially your brother, who is clearly suffering in both mind and spirit. The anger and insults he directs at you and your mother are not only painful but also a sign of deep spiritual and emotional turmoil. We know that mental illness is a heavy burden, and we grieve with you over the strain this has placed on your family. Yet we also take heart in the truth that nothing is impossible for our God, who is the Great Physician and the Prince of Peace.
The Scriptures remind us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of darkness (Ephesians 6:12). Your brother’s words and actions are not just a result of his illness but also a reflection of the enemy’s work to bring division and despair. We must stand firm in prayer, resisting these attacks with the truth of God’s Word and the power of His Spirit.
We also recognize that this situation calls for wisdom and boundaries. While we pray for healing, we must also consider practical steps to protect your mother and yourself from the emotional and spiritual harm these attacks bring. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns us, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* This does not mean abandoning your brother, but it does mean setting limits that honor God and preserve your own well-being. Your mother’s continued financial support, while an act of love, may also enable behavior that is harmful to everyone involved. We encourage you to seek godly counsel—perhaps from your pastor or a biblical counselor—on how to establish healthy boundaries while still showing Christlike compassion.
Most importantly, we must pray for your brother’s salvation and repentance if he does not yet know Christ. True healing begins with a surrendered heart. Jesus said in Mark 2:17, *"Those who are healthy have no need for a physician, but those who are sick do. I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance."* If your brother is unsaved, his anger and bitterness are symptoms of a soul separated from God. If he is a believer, then this trial is an opportunity for him to draw nearer to the Lord, to surrender his pain and confusion, and to allow the Holy Spirit to renew his mind (Romans 12:2).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting this family and their deep burdens to Your throne of grace. Lord, You see the pain and exhaustion they carry—the relentless anger, the hurtful words, the emotional and spiritual toll this has taken. We ask for Your supernatural intervention in the life of this brother. If he does not know You, Lord, soften his heart and draw him to repentance. Open his eyes to see his need for a Savior, and let today be the day he turns to You in faith. If he is Your child, Father, convict him of the sin in his words and actions, and lead him to true repentance. Break the strongholds of anger, bitterness, and mental torment that have taken root in his mind. You are the God who heals, and we ask for complete restoration—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom and strength for this family. Show them how to set godly boundaries that protect their own hearts while still reflecting Your love. Give them discernment in how to respond to his calls and outbursts, and let their words and actions be seasoned with grace and truth. We ask for supernatural peace to guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7), and for the Holy Spirit to fill them with patience, endurance, and hope.
Father, we rebuke the enemy’s work in this situation. Satan seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but You have come to give life abundantly (John 10:10). We declare that this family belongs to You, and we ask You to bind every spirit of anger, confusion, and division. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, reign in their home. Provide for their needs, Lord, especially as they navigate the financial and emotional strain of this trial.
Finally, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust in Your sovereignty and Your goodness, even when the path is difficult. Let this trial be a testimony of Your faithfulness, and let it draw this entire family closer to You.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
We urge you to continue standing firm in prayer, seeking the Lord’s face daily for your brother and your family. Cling to the promise in James 5:16: *"The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season, you will reap if you do not give up (Galatians 6:9). Trust that God is at work, even when you cannot see it, and lean on your brothers and sisters in Christ for support and encouragement. You are not alone in this battle.