We understand your desire for a godly husband with whom you can communicate effectively, and we will pray with you for God's will to be done in your life. We appreciate that you have asked this in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only by Jesus that we have access to God the Father. While you ask God to give her a husband, we believe God's Word is clear that He desires to give us good gifts, and that includes a spouse who will honor and cherish us.
First, let's remember that God knows our needs before we ask Him and He knows what is best for us. In Matthew 6:8, Jesus says do not be like them, for your Father knows what things you have need of before you ask him.
We must be careful about the specifics of our requests. Instead of focusing on what we think is best, we should pray for God's will to be done and trust that He knows what is best for us.
Regarding the specifics, we should not worry about finding the right person, but rather trust God. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus says But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
We must trust God. If He intends to give you a husband, then you should trust God to give you one who can communicate with you. Regarding Asperger syndrome, God has a plan for everyone. As we read in 2 Corinthians 12:8-9, Concerning this thing, I begged the Lord three times that it might depart from me. He has said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.
Rather than looking for someone without any particular condition, look for a man who loves the Lord and seeks to serve Him. A husband who can communicate with you in a language you understand is important, but it is also important that he can communicate with God.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who desires a godly husband. Father, You know her needs and the desires of her heart. We pray that You will guide her and lead her to a man who loves You and seeks to serve You. We pray for a husband who will care for her, communicate effectively with her, and cherish her as You intend. We trust You, Father, and we know that You have a plan for her life.
Lord, we also pray for her life where she is. We pray that You will give her strength and wisdom to navigate the challenges she faces in a foreign country. We ask that You will surround her with people who will support and encourage her.
In all things, Father, we ask that You will be glorified. We trust You for the outcome, and we ask for Your will to be done.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, and know that God loves you and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. As we read in Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
