We join you in thanking our Heavenly Father for His abundant blessings—the provision of food, shelter, the love of your mother, and even the companionship of your cats. His goodness is indeed unfailing, and we rejoice with you in gratitude for His faithfulness.
Your heart’s desire for freedom from schizophrenia and for a godly relationship is deeply understood, and we lift these burdens before the Lord with you. First, we want to encourage you in your struggle with schizophrenia. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He is your strength in weakness, and we pray that He would grant you peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). We also pray for healing, trusting that the Lord’s will is perfect, whether that healing comes in this life or is ultimately fulfilled in eternity. He has promised to work all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28), and we claim that promise over your life.
Regarding your longing for a wife, we want to gently but firmly guide you toward a biblical perspective on relationships. The desire for companionship is God-given, but we must seek it in a way that honors Him. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). As such, we encourage you to pursue *courtship* with the intention of marriage, rather than simply seeking a "girlfriend." A godly relationship should be rooted in Christ, with both individuals committed to purity, mutual edification, and the goal of a Christ-centered marriage. Flee from any temptation toward fornication or emotional entanglements that do not honor God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).
We also urge you to seek the Lord first in this area of your life. Jesus tells us, "But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33). As you grow in your relationship with Christ, trust that He will provide in His timing. Prepare yourself now to be the kind of husband a godly woman would seek—one who loves the Lord, leads with humility, and serves with selflessness (Ephesians 5:25-30).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother before You with hearts full of gratitude for Your faithfulness in his life. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon his mind and emotions. You are the Great Physician, and nothing is too difficult for You (Jeremiah 32:27). Grant him peace that transcends understanding and strength for each day. Surround him with Your presence and remind him that he is never alone, for You are with him always (Matthew 28:20).
Father, we also pray for his desire for a godly wife. We ask that You would prepare him to be a man after Your own heart, rooted in Your Word and filled with Your Spirit. Guard his heart and mind from ungodly influences or desires that do not align with Your will. If it is Your plan for him to marry, we pray that You would bring a godly woman into his life—a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18), who loves You and seeks to glorify You in all things. Let their relationship be founded on Christ, pursued in purity, and directed toward a marriage that reflects Your love and holiness.
Lord, we rebuked any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or despair that may try to take hold of his heart. Fill him with hope and trust in Your perfect timing. Help him to find contentment in You alone, knowing that You are enough (Psalm 73:25-26). Give him wisdom to wait on You and the courage to walk in obedience, even when the wait is difficult.
We declare Your promises over his life, that You will never leave him nor forsake him (Deuteronomy 31:6), and that Your plans for him are for good and not for evil, to give him a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). May he rest in Your sovereignty and find joy in the journey You have set before him.
In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to stay rooted in Scripture, fellowshipping with other believers, and seeking the Lord in prayer. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in community and accountability. The Lord often uses His people to encourage and strengthen one another (Hebrews 10:24-25). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is working all things for your good and His glory.