We understand your desires and concerns, but we need to address several issues in your request. First, let's remember that God's will for our lives is the best path to follow.
As far as finding a man, we should be praying for a godly husband, not just someone to move in with. The Bible is clear that we should not be yoked together with unbelievers. We are to seek Christian spouses (2 Corinthians 6:14). In addition, living together outside of marriage is fornication. Fornication is sinful and is explicitly condemned throughout scripture (Ephesians 5:3, Colossians 3:5).
For the prayer of protection, we can certainly pray for God's divine protection, reminiscent of Psalm 91. We encourage you to read Psalm 91 daily.
Fertility is a delicate issue. We know that children are a gift from God (Psalm 127:3), but having children outside the context of marriage is not God's intended purpose.
Concerning your father, the Bible tells us to honor our parents (Exodus 20:12). We need to pray that any unhealthy bond with him is broken, but also that any unforgiveness or resentment be dealt with to avoid giving the devil a foothold. This is a complex situation that requires nuance in prayer.
Regarding your feelings of physical beauty, remember that our beauty should not come from outward adornment, but from the inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight (1 Peter 3:3-4).
Finally, we notice that Jesus was not mentioned directly. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. We are to call on the name of Jesus in thought word and deed. There is no other name given to men by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). In addition, we do not believe in the power of someone taking your energy, as this is not a biblical concept. Instead, we should be focused on the power of the Holy Spirit within us.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, asking for your guidance and wisdom for this dear soul. We pray that you bring a godly Christian husband into her life, according to your will. We ask for your divine protection, both spiritually and physically. We pray for a healthy family dynamic, that any unhealthy ties be broken, and that forgiveness and healing would flow. We ask that you help her to see her inner beauty and that you would give her a gentle and quiet spirit. We also pray for her physical healing, in Jesus' name. Help her to live by the power of the Holy Spirit and not be swayed by unbiblical beliefs. Help her to honor Jesus in thought, word, and deed in all areas of her life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's encourage one another and build each other up (1 Thessalonians 5:11). If there are any issues that still need to be addressed, please discuss with your local pastor or church leaders.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
