Thank you for bringing your concerns to us. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this situation. We believe that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our relationships.
Firstly, we appreciate that you acknowledged the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let's address your question about whether it's appropriate to ask God if this lady is right for you. It's important to remember that God wants the best for us, and He will guide us according to His will. In Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, it says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
However, we must also be cautious not to put God to the test. God is not a fortune-teller, and we should not approach Him as such. Instead, we should seek His will in our lives and trust that He will guide us. In Matthew 4:7 WEB, Jesus says, "Again, it is written, ‘You shall not test the Lord, your God.’"
Regarding your situation with the lady, we must remember that God's word teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Before pursuing this lady, it's crucial to discern if she is a fellow believer in Christ. Moreover, it's important to spend time getting to know her in a manner that honors God, which should be in public places and with other people, not alone together. As we are called to abstain from even the appearance of evil in 1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who is seeking Your will in his life. Lord, we ask that You guide him and give him the wisdom to discern Your will for his relationships. Help him to trust in You and not lean on his own understanding. We also pray for the lady, that You would work in her heart and draw her closer to You. If it is Your will for their paths to cross again, we pray that You would make it clear. We ask for all these things in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.