Prayer to accept my fate with ###..

[Hothdraak]

Heavenly Father,

I come before you today asking for help regarding ###. I have been praying for this man here for about 2 months now.

He said we cannot be anything more than friends. He really doesn’t want a relationship with me. And honestly, I find it difficult to accept because I really clung on the idea that he was my Kingdom Spouse.

He did check all the boxes, and it had the fruit of the spirit in it. But maybe it's just not for me? But on the bright side, he did agree to stay in my life as my friend..

However, I don’t know what the future holds. I am just praying that in this moment, I can learn to accept that he doesn’t see me as more than just a friend. If he is truly for me then I pray that your will be done.

Lord, it really hurts. I have learned to love this person already. I know deep down that I really appreciate him for leading me closer to you. It's only sad that he and I cannot be together because he doesn’t have feelings for me.

I lift up to you all this pain that I feel in my heart. I pray that you take it away, Father. I will be sad to see ### with someone else in the future. And I am scared to see it now but maybe someday I will be okay. I’m sorry. I really thought he was the one for me.

Lord God, I pray that I meet the right person for me. Just as you said in Ecclesiastes 8:5-9, I pray that I may have a wise heart to know the proper time and procedure. I lift up to you my Kingdom Spouse, may I be able to finally meet him when the time is right.

Thank you so much my Lord Jesus Christ for everything. I love you with all my heart and soul. Please take care of everything, Lord.

Please let me accept that ### really doesn’t like me more than just a friend so that I can also be a friend to him too.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, dear sister, and we join you in bringing this pain before the Lord. It is clear that you have invested much hope and love into this situation, and the disappointment you feel is real. But we must first address something critical in your prayer—you referred to this man as your "Kingdom Spouse" before marriage was even a possibility. Scripture is clear that we must not claim what God has not yet ordained. Proverbs 19:21 says, *"There are many plans in a man’s heart, but Yahweh’s counsel will prevail."* You cannot force a relationship to be what it is not, no matter how much it may feel like it "checked all the boxes." God’s timing and His will are perfect, even when they do not align with our desires.

You also mentioned the fear of seeing this man with someone else in the future. This reveals that your heart is still holding onto what could have been rather than surrendering fully to God’s plan. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:33, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."* Clinging to a man—even in your thoughts—will only prolong your healing. True peace comes when we release our grip and trust that God’s best for us is far greater than anything we could imagine.

We must also gently rebuke the idea of remaining in a friendship with this man if it continues to cause you pain. Proverbs 4:23 warns, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* If being around him stirs up longing or bitterness, it may be wise to create space until your heart is fully healed. This is not punishment—it is protection. You cannot move forward while still looking back.

Now, let us pray together:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, knowing that Your daughter is hurting. Lord, we ask that You would comfort her with the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Help her to release this man fully into Your hands, trusting that if he is not the one, You have someone far better prepared for her. Father, we rebuke the spirit of longing and disappointment that seeks to keep her bound. We declare that her heart belongs to You first, and we pray that You would fill the empty spaces with Your love and purpose.*

*Lord, we ask that You would reveal any areas where she has placed her hope in a person rather than in You. Soften her heart to accept Your will, even when it is painful. Give her the strength to walk away if needed, knowing that You are her Provider and Protector. We pray for the man You have chosen for her—prepare him, draw him closer to You, and align their paths in Your perfect timing.*

*Father, we thank You that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We trust that You will turn this sorrow into joy and use this season to refine her faith. May she seek You above all else, knowing that in You, she lacks nothing. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith. Amen."*

Sister, we encourage you to meditate on Jeremiah 29:11: *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* God has not abandoned you—He is working even in this disappointment. Surrender this man fully to Him, and watch how He will restore your heart in ways you never expected. If you need further counsel, seek out godly women in your church who can walk alongside you in this season. You are not alone.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister, we hear your heart and we're here for you. It's clear that you've invested deeply into this relationship, and it's okay to feel hurt and disappointed. We want to encourage you to keep surrendering this situation to God, one day at a time.

We understand that it's hard to accept that this man doesn't see you as more than a friend, but remember, God knows the desires of your heart better than anyone. In Jeremiah 29:11, He promises, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Trust that His plan is perfect, even when it doesn't align with our desires.

We also want to encourage you to focus on your relationship with God. Seek Him first, and trust that He will fill the empty spaces in your heart with His love and purpose. As it says in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."

Lastly, we want to remind you that it's okay to grieve, but try not to let bitterness take root. Keep your heart pure and open to God's leading. He has someone special in mind for you, and He will reveal that in His perfect timing.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You with our sister's heartache. Lord, we ask that You would comfort her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to release this man fully into Your hands, trusting that if he's not the one, You have someone far better prepared for her. Fill her empty spaces with Your love and purpose. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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