We rejoice with you in these praises, for our God is faithful, and we give Him all the glory for His goodness in your life! It is beautiful to see His hand at work in your family’s safety, your baby’s growth, and the partial repayment of the debt. Indeed, "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights" (James 1:17). We lift our voices in thanksgiving for His provision and protection, knowing that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).
Yet as we come before the Lord with your requests, we must first address a matter that weighs heavily on our hearts in light of Scripture. You mention a "partner" and a "boyfriend," and while we understand the depth of care and hope you have for this relationship, we must lovingly but firmly speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). The Word of God is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God from the beginning (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship outside of this design—including cohabitation, emotional or physical intimacy without marriage, or relationships that do not honor God’s intent for marriage—is not aligned with His will. The Bible calls sexual immorality (which includes sex outside of marriage) sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Galatians 5:19-21), and we are commanded to flee from it. If this relationship involves physical intimacy, we urge you to repent and turn away from it, for "the body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord" (1 Corinthians 6:13). God’s grace is sufficient to help you walk in purity, and His plans for you are good—plans that include holiness and a marriage that reflects Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33).
Additionally, if this relationship is with someone who is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we must warn you that Scripture explicitly commands, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). A marriage built on unequal spiritual foundation will face immense struggles, for how can two walk together unless they are agreed? (Amos 3:3). If your boyfriend is not a born-again believer in Jesus Christ, we strongly encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is honoring to God. Your first priority must be seeking the Lord and His kingdom (Matthew 6:33), and trusting Him to provide a godly spouse if that is His will for you.
We also notice that while you closed your prayer "in Jesus’ Mighty Name," much of your request focuses on desires and plans without explicitly surrendering them to the Lordship of Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18), and it is His will—not our own—that we must seek above all else. Let us remember that "the prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:15-16). Our prayers must be rooted in repentance, faith, and submission to God’s perfect will, even when it differs from our own desires.
With these truths in mind, let us now lift your requests before the Lord, asking Him to work mightily in each area while aligning your heart and this relationship with His Word.
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**For your baby’s health and development:**
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the precious gift of this child, fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image (Psalm 139:14). We ask for Your healing touch upon her hips, that any abnormalities would be completely restored by Your power. Let the upcoming ultrasound bring favorable results that glorify Your name. Protect her growth and development, Lord, and grant her mother wisdom and discernment as she cares for her. May this child grow in strength and health, a testament to Your faithfulness. "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made" (Psalm 139:13-14).
**For financial justice:**
Lord, we ask for the full repayment of this debt, not just for financial relief but for the conviction of the one who owes it. Soften their heart, Lord, and bring them to a place of integrity and repentance if needed. We pray that You would provide supernaturally for every need, for You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10). Let this situation be resolved in a way that brings glory to Your name and teaches all involved to trust in You. "The wicked borrow, and do not pay back, but the righteous give generously" (Psalm 37:21). We ask that justice and righteousness prevail.
**For the visa miracle:**
Father, we pray for Your divine favor to rest upon this process. Soften the hearts of the immigration officers and let every document be approved swiftly and without delay. You are the God who parts seas and opens doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). We ask for a miracle that testifies to Your power and provision. "For the Lord your God is he who goes with you to fight for you against your enemies, to give you the victory" (Deuteronomy 20:4). Let this visa be granted as a sign of Your goodness.
**For your mother’s deliverance:**
Lord, we bind every spirit of anger and oppression in the name of Jesus. Break every chain of darkness, including any involvement with black magic or occult practices, which are detestable in Your sight (Deuteronomy 18:10-12). Fill her with Your peace and the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). We pray for the quick sale of their home, that it would be a smooth transition into a place of Your blessing and protection. "If the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed" (John 8:36). Let freedom reign in her life.
**For God’s marriage plan:**
Father, we surrender this relationship entirely to You. If it is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You would make that abundantly clear and give strength to walk away in obedience. If there is hope for a godly marriage, we pray for the transformation of hearts—beginning with repentance, salvation (if needed), and a deep commitment to Your design for marriage. Convict both of You of any sin, and draw them to a place of holiness. "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Let Your will be done, not ours.
**For your boyfriend’s breakthrough:**
Lord, we pray for his health and strength, but more than that, we pray for his soul. If he does not know You, soften his heart to receive the gospel. Deliver him from anger and negative speech, and fill him with Your peace. Grant him supernatural rest, but let it be a rest that comes from knowing You (Matthew 11:28). "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1). May he be transformed by Your love.
**For your sister’s miracle:**
Father, we ask for complete healing—physically, mentally, and emotionally. You are Jehovah-Rapha, the God who heals (Exodus 15:26). Provide for her financially, and let her experience Your overflowing blessings. "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3). Restore her fully, Lord.
**For your employment:**
Lord, we ask for divine connections and open doors for the right job. Let favor surround you as You guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). Provide not just a job, but a place where Your name can be glorified through your work. "Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established" (Proverbs 16:3).
**For wisdom, timing, and peace:**
Father, grant you wisdom that comes from above (James 3:17) as you mother your daughter. Let Your perfect timing prevail in every area of your life, and fill you with peace and patience as you wait. "But those who wait for the Lord will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint" (Isaiah 40:31).
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**Final Exhortation:**
Beloved, we urge you to examine this relationship in light of Scripture. If there is sexual immorality, repent and turn from it. If your boyfriend is not a believer, prayerfully consider whether this relationship is honoring to God. Seek the Lord first, and trust Him with your future. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4)—but let your delight be in *Him*, not in the desires themselves.
We also encourage you to test every prayer request against the Word of God. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:13-14), and our prayers must align with His will, not our own. Let us pray as Jesus did in Gethsemane: "Not my will, but yours be done" (Luke 22:42).
May the Lord grant you discernment, strength, and a heart fully submitted to Him. We will continue to pray for you, trusting that He who calls you is faithful and will do it (1 Thessalonians 5:24). "Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to him be the glory in the Church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen" (Ephesians 3:20-21).
