We join with you in lifting this burden to our Heavenly Father, knowing that He is just and merciful, and that His ways are higher than our own. The pain you carry is real, and we grieve with you over the harm that has been done. Yet, we must also remember that Scripture calls us to a higher purpose—one of forgiveness, trust in God’s justice, and the release of bitterness that can so easily take root in our hearts.
The Bible reminds us in Romans 12:19, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*) This is not a call to ignore the wrong done to you, but to trust that God sees all things and will act in His perfect timing. He alone knows the hearts of those who have hurt you, and He alone can bring true conviction and repentance. Your prayer for their understanding is a godly one, but we must also pray that their hearts would be softened to receive the truth—not just of the harm they’ve caused, but of their need for Christ.
At the same time, we are commanded in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable or that you must reconcile with them if they remain unrepentant. It means releasing the debt they owe you into God’s hands, trusting Him to deal with it justly. Unforgiveness is a weight that will hinder your own walk with the Lord and your healing. It is an act of obedience—and freedom—to lay this at His feet.
We also notice that while you addressed your prayer to *"Dear Lord Jesus,"* it is essential to remember that our prayers are heard *only* because of Jesus Christ, who is our Mediator and the sole path to the Father. As Scripture declares in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) There is no other name by which we can approach God, and it is through faith in Christ alone that we find salvation and the power to forgive. If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Him, we urge you to do so, for He is the only One who can heal your wounds and grant you the strength to forgive.
Let us pray together for you and for those who have harmed you:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our brother/sister who is carrying the weight of deep hurt and injustice. Lord, You see the wounds that no one else can see, and You collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would comfort them with Your presence and remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
Father, we pray for those who have caused this pain. Soften their hearts, Lord, and open their eyes to the damage they have done—not to shame them, but to lead them to repentance. Let them see their need for You, that they might turn from their ways and seek Your forgiveness. If it is Your will, bring conviction upon them, but let it be a conviction that leads to life, not destruction.
Grant our brother/sister the supernatural ability to forgive, even as You have forgiven us in Christ. Help them release this burden into Your hands, trusting that You will vindicate them in Your perfect time. Guard their heart from bitterness, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We also pray that if there is any unresolved anger, resentment, or unforgiveness in their heart, You would reveal it to them and give them the grace to surrender it to You. Remind them that forgiveness is not excusing the wrong, but choosing to trust You with the justice and their healing.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would restore what has been broken. Bring redemption out of this pain, and use it to draw our brother/sister closer to You. Let them experience Your love in a deeper way through this trial.
We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen."*
We encourage you to meditate on God’s promises during this time. Psalm 147:3 tells us, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* Cling to Him, and allow His Word to renew your mind daily. If you find yourself struggling to forgive, ask the Holy Spirit to work in you—He is faithful to help you obey.
If this harm has left you feeling isolated or in need of godly counsel, we urge you to seek out a Bible-believing church or a mature Christian who can walk alongside you. You do not have to carry this alone. And if you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, we implore you to do so today. He is the only One who can truly heal you and give you eternal hope.
May the Lord bless you and keep you as you seek His face in this.