Prayer Request

Anonymous

Beloved of All
Dear Lord Jesus please can you make me stop talking and arguing unnecessarily make me realize that the person will not listen to my views and it is equivalent to barking at a tree. Help me accept that fate can't be reversed and this is the end of my chapter.
 
We join you in lifting this struggle before the Lord, for we know how deeply the flesh craves the last word, the validation of being heard, or the futile attempt to change what only God can sovereignly ordain. Your heart’s cry reveals a weariness in striving against what feels like an immovable wall—and in this, we see the Holy Spirit already at work, convicting you of the vanity of human effort apart from His peace. How precious it is that you bring this before Jesus, the only One who can tame the tongue and quiet the soul!

The Scriptures warn us plainly: *"If anyone thinks himself to be religious while he doesn’t bridle his tongue, but deceives his heart, this man’s religion is worthless"* (James 1:26, WEB). And again, *"The tongue is a fire, the world of iniquity. The tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the course of nature, and is set on fire by Gehenna"* (James 3:6, WEB). Oh, how often we’ve all stood in this fire, scorched by our own words or the stubbornness of others! Yet the Lord does not leave us in despair. He commands us through Paul: *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear"* (Ephesians 4:29, WEB).

Beloved, your plea to "accept that fate can’t be reversed" touches on a profound truth: there *are* seasons God ordains for closure, for silence, for surrendering the illusion of control. Even Jesus, when reviled, *"didn’t threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously"* (1 Peter 2:23, WEB). If this chapter is indeed ending, then let it end with the dignity of Christlike surrender—not the bitter resignation of defeat, but the holy quiet of trusting God’s sovereignty. *"The Lord’s voice calls to the city—
and wisdom sees your name.
‘Listen, tribe of your assembly!’*
*Can’t I punish those who rise up against me*
*and take vengeance on my enemies?"* (Micah 6:9, WEB). Sometimes, the most powerful "argument" is the one left unspoken in the hands of God.

Yet we must also ask: Is this truly a matter of "fate," or is there unconfessed frustration, pride, or even idolatry in your heart? Do you seek to change this person’s mind because you love them—or because you love being *right*? *"All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes,*
*but the Lord weighs the motives"* (Proverbs 16:2, WEB). Search your heart, dear one. If there is sin, repent. If there is grief, release it to Jesus. If there is fear (of being unheard, of losing influence, of the future), cast it upon Him, *"because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).

Now let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we lift our sister/brother before Your throne, where grace flows like a river and mercy triumphs over judgment. Lord Jesus, You who spoke peace to the storm and silence to the accusers, speak now to this restless heart. Bind the tongue that would argue in vain, and loose the spirit to trust Your timing. Where there is pride, humble. Where there is fear, comfort. Where there is unresolved grief, heal. Remind them, Holy Spirit, that *"a soft answer turns away wrath,*
*but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1, WEB)—and that sometimes, the softest answer is no answer at all, but a heart at rest in You.

If this season is indeed a closing, grant the grace to close it well—to bless instead of burn bridges, to pray instead of persuade, to walk away in peace rather than storm away in frustration. If there is more You would have them do or say, make it abundantly clear, and give them the courage to obey. But if this is a time to be still, then let them *"be still, and know that [You are] God"* (Psalm 46:10, WEB).

We rebuke the spirit of strife, of futile contention, of the need to have the last word—in Jesus’ mighty name, we command it to flee! Replace it, Lord, with the fruit of Your Spirit: love that doesn’t insist on its own way, joy that transcends circumstances, peace that guards the heart (Galatians 5:22–23). Let every word that *must* be spoken be seasoned with salt, full of grace, that it may minister to the hearer (Colossians 4:6).

And finally, Father, if this sorrow runs deeper—if it’s tied to a broken relationship, a dream deferred, or a hope that feels dead—we ask You to resurrect what aligns with Your will and bury what does not. Remind them that You *"make all things work together for good for those who love [You], who are called according to [Your] purpose"* (Romans 8:28, WEB). Even this.

We ask all this in the name above every name—Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

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*Additional Encouragement:*
Consider memorizing and meditating on Psalm 19:14 (WEB): *"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight,*
*Lord, my rock, and my redeemer."* Write it on a card; place it where you’ll see it daily. When the urge to argue rises, pause and pray this verse instead. You may also find it helpful to journal your frustrations to the Lord—He hears what others refuse to, and His responses never fail (1 John 5:14–15).

If this struggle persists, seek accountability with a mature believer who can lovingly remind you of these truths in moments of weakness. You are not alone in this! The body of Christ is here to uphold you.
 
We're right there with you, friend. It's tough when we feel our words are bouncing off walls, or worse, fueling fires. But remember, Jesus said, "Blessed are those who hear the word of God and keep it!" (Luke 11:28). Sometimes, that means keeping quiet when we'd rather argue.

Let's pray together: "Lord Jesus, help us to bridle our tongues, to speak only what builds up and gives grace. Give us the wisdom to know when to speak and when to be silent. If this is a time to be still, help us to trust that You are God, and that You're working even when we can't see it. Help us to accept that some things can't be reversed, and that's okay, because You're in control. Help us to surrender our pride, our fears, our unmet expectations to You. In Your mighty name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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