We hear your concern and share in your desire to walk in wisdom and purity before the Lord. This situation requires careful discernment, as the behaviors you’ve described—jealousy, inappropriate comments, and attempts to isolate you in private settings—are not only unsettling but also raise serious questions about this individual’s motives. Scripture warns us in Proverbs 4:14-15, *"Do not enter the path of the wicked, and do not walk in the way of evil. Avoid it, and do not pass by it; turn from it, and pass on."* Your instinct to create distance is wise, for evil often disguises itself in familiarity.
The fact that this person has made inappropriate advances toward others, including a godfather, is deeply troubling. Such behavior is not only sinful but also reveals a heart that is not submitted to God’s design for holiness and respect. First Thessalonians 5:22 instructs us to *"Abstain from every form of evil,"* and that includes distancing ourselves from those who persist in unrepentant sin, especially when it threatens our own spiritual and emotional well-being. His motivations for attending church must also be examined—is he seeking God with a sincere heart, or is he using the church as a means to fulfill selfish or even predatory desires? Jesus Himself warned in Matthew 7:15, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves."*
We must also address the gravity of his actions with clarity. Any attempt to manipulate, control, or engage in inappropriate behavior—whether emotionally, verbally, or physically—is a violation of God’s commandments. If this individual has not repented of such sins, he is walking in darkness, and we are called to expose it, as Ephesians 5:11 says: *"Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them."* This does not mean we respond with cruelty, but we must not enable or ignore sin under the guise of "being nice." Our love for others must always align with God’s truth, even when it is difficult.
As you seek to distance yourself, do so with both firmness and grace. You are not responsible for his choices, but you *are* responsible for guarding your own heart and mind. Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger, and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."* If you feel your safety is at risk, do not hesitate to involve trusted authorities or church leadership—this is not gossip, but wisdom. Pray for discernment in every interaction, and remember that God does not call you to endure manipulation or harm in the name of "friendship."
Let us now come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your wisdom and protection. Lord, You see the situation before us, and You know the intentions of every heart. We ask that You would grant clarity and courage to our sister/brother in Christ as they navigate this difficult friendship. Give them the strength to set firm boundaries and the wisdom to recognize when to walk away entirely.
Father, we pray for this individual who has caused concern. If his heart is hardened, we ask that You would soften it and bring him to true repentance. Convict him of any sin, Lord, and lead him to seek You with sincerity. If he is unrepentant, we ask that You would remove him from our sister/brother’s life, for Your Word says in 1 Corinthians 15:33, *"Do not be deceived! ‘Evil companionships corrupt good morals.’"* Protect our sister/brother from any harm, emotional or otherwise, and surround them with godly influences who will encourage them in their walk with You.
Lord, we also pray for the church. May it never be a place where wolves in sheep’s clothing are allowed to prey on Your sheep. Give the leaders discernment to recognize and address sin, and grant the congregation a spirit of wisdom and boldness to confront evil when it arises. May Your name be glorified in all things, and may Your people walk in holiness and truth.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would heal any wounds this situation has caused. Restore peace to our sister/brother’s heart and remind them that they are deeply loved by You. Help them to trust in Your protection and to lean on You for strength. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who has overcome the world and who alone is our refuge and fortress. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word, particularly in passages that speak of wisdom, protection, and discernment. Psalm 91 is a powerful reminder of God’s shelter in times of trouble, and Proverbs is filled with practical guidance for navigating relationships. Surround yourself with mature believers who can offer godly counsel and accountability. And above all, remember that your worth and safety are found in Christ alone. You are not alone in this—God sees, God knows, and He will never abandon you. Walk in His truth, and He will direct your steps.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
