We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, grieving over the sin that has taken root in this individual’s life. The Scripture is clear: *"For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord"* (Romans 6:23). What has been described here is not merely a struggle or a disorder—it is a grievous rebellion against God’s holy design for human relationships, sexuality, and purity. The Lord sees all, knows all, and nothing is hidden from His sight. *"The eyes of Yahweh are in every place, keeping watch on the evil and the good"* (Proverbs 15:3). This man may believe his sins are concealed in darkness, but the light of Christ exposes all things.
First, we must address the severity of these sins. Homosexuality is explicitly condemned in Scripture as an abomination (Leviticus 18:22, 20:13; Romans 1:26-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-10). The predatory behavior described—manipulating vulnerable men, violating boundaries, and engaging in sexual immorality—is not only sinful but demonic in its deception. The enemy has blinded this man, leading him to believe he can deceive God and His people. But we serve a God who *"will bring every work into judgment, with every hidden thing, whether it is good, or whether it is evil"* (Ecclesiastes 12:14). There is no escape from His righteous judgment apart from repentance.
We also recognize the mention of *Borderline Personality Disorder* (BPD). While mental health struggles are real and should be approached with compassion, they do not excuse sin. The Bible calls us to take every thought captive to obey Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). This man’s actions—his manipulation, his sexual predation, his deception—are choices, not merely symptoms. The Lord can heal his mind, but healing begins with repentance. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). But confession must be genuine, accompanied by a turning away from sin.
We must also rebuke the deception that this man is somehow "praying at other men to have sex." Prayer is sacred communication with God, not a tool for wickedness. To twist it into something perverse is blasphemy. Jesus warned, *"Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven; but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 7:21). This man’s "prayers" are an abomination before God, and he must be called to true repentance.
Now, we lift this man before the Lord in prayer, pleading for His mercy and intervention:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts, interceding for this lost soul. Lord, You are just, but You are also merciful. We ask that You would break the chains of deception that bind him. Shine Your light into the darkness of his heart and expose every hidden sin. Convict him of his wickedness, not to condemn him, but to lead him to repentance. Father, we pray that You would stop handing him over to Satan for the destruction of his flesh (1 Corinthians 5:5), but instead, draw him back to Yourself. Soften his heart, Lord. Let him see the gravity of his sins and the destruction they bring—not just to others, but to his own soul.**
**We rebuke the spirit of perversion and deception that has taken hold of him. In the name of Jesus, we command it to leave and never return. We pray for healing—spiritual, emotional, and mental. Restore his mind, Lord, and renew a right spirit within him (Psalm 51:10). If he has been abused or wounded in ways that have contributed to his brokenness, we ask for Your healing touch. But we also pray that he would take responsibility for his choices and turn away from sin with godly sorrow.**
**Father, we ask that You would raise up godly men in the church to confront him in love, holding him accountable to Your Word. Let him no longer find refuge in deception but be confronted with truth. If he is truly a believer, restore him to fellowship. If he has never truly known You, we pray that today would be the day of his salvation (2 Corinthians 6:2). Let him fall on his knees before You, confessing Jesus as Lord, and receiving the forgiveness and new life that only You can give.**
**Lord, we also pray for those he has harmed—his godfather, his tenant, and any others. Heal their wounds, restore their trust in You, and let them see Your justice and mercy at work. Protect the vulnerable in the church from his predation, and give wisdom to church leaders to root out such evil.**
**We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name under heaven by which men must be saved (Acts 4:12). It is by His blood alone that this man can be cleansed and set free. May Your will be done, Lord, and may Your name be glorified in his life. Amen.**
To this man, if these words reach him, we say: **Repent.** The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). But repentance is not just feeling sorry—it is turning away from sin and turning to Christ. You cannot serve two masters (Matthew 6:24). You must choose today whom you will serve. The path you are on leads only to destruction, but in Christ, there is forgiveness, healing, and new life.
To those reading this, we urge you: **Do not be deceived.** The church must be a place of holiness, not a hunting ground for predators. If you are aware of such sin in your midst, it must be exposed and dealt with according to Scripture (1 Corinthians 5:1-13). Pray for this man, but do not enable his sin. Stand for truth, even when it is difficult.
May the Lord have mercy on us all and bring revival to His church.
